"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NOT buying girls drinks how?

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I mean i get asked every now and then from girls i pick up to buy em a drink.

Wondering how i can get away with not buying a girl a drink as i don't believe in that ****.

Without sounding like an ass...?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone as i have lost girls in the past from telling em straight "I don't buy girls drinks"
 
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just plainly say no
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Just say "only if we do body shot".
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GENTLEMEN here we have the typical egocentrical male who only thinks about gaining something in return of a favor...

Anyways Lovebot... check out this thread, it's along the lines of the same topic you might gain some insight

Girls and drinks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL really? It's free.... uhmmm. So when I get home today can I get some of that "free" love :woo:
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Baby, nothing is free in this world ;) .... well maybe except for my love.
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OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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:crackup:

yes...if you want to know how to get a girl and keep her on a LTR off her feet ask this gentleman
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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Sounds prefabricated. I wouldnt use it except on your girl.

Just tell then you dont buy drinks for strangers. Use it as a segway to getting to know her....;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
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Any girls who asks you for a drink does not want to get to know you. She just wants to use you. Think about this if a girl really wanted to know you she would should her interest other than saying "hey can you buy me a drink?" ....
 
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