"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

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NOT buying girls drinks how?

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I mean i get asked every now and then from girls i pick up to buy em a drink.

Wondering how i can get away with not buying a girl a drink as i don't believe in that ****.

Without sounding like an ass...?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anyone as i have lost girls in the past from telling em straight "I don't buy girls drinks"
 
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just plainly say no
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Just say "only if we do body shot".
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GENTLEMEN here we have the typical egocentrical male who only thinks about gaining something in return of a favor...

Anyways Lovebot... check out this thread, it's along the lines of the same topic you might gain some insight

Girls and drinks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LOL really? It's free.... uhmmm. So when I get home today can I get some of that "free" love :woo:
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Baby, nothing is free in this world ;) .... well maybe except for my love.
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OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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:crackup:

yes...if you want to know how to get a girl and keep her on a LTR off her feet ask this gentleman
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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Sounds prefabricated. I wouldnt use it except on your girl.

Just tell then you dont buy drinks for strangers. Use it as a segway to getting to know her....;)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
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Any girls who asks you for a drink does not want to get to know you. She just wants to use you. Think about this if a girl really wanted to know you she would should her interest other than saying "hey can you buy me a drink?" ....
 
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