"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NOT buying girls drinks how?

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I mean i get asked every now and then from girls i pick up to buy em a drink.

Wondering how i can get away with not buying a girl a drink as i don't believe in that ****.

Without sounding like an ass...?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone as i have lost girls in the past from telling em straight "I don't buy girls drinks"
 
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just plainly say no
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Just say "only if we do body shot".
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GENTLEMEN here we have the typical egocentrical male who only thinks about gaining something in return of a favor...

Anyways Lovebot... check out this thread, it's along the lines of the same topic you might gain some insight

Girls and drinks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LOL really? It's free.... uhmmm. So when I get home today can I get some of that "free" love :woo:
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Baby, nothing is free in this world ;) .... well maybe except for my love.
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OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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:crackup:

yes...if you want to know how to get a girl and keep her on a LTR off her feet ask this gentleman
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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Sounds prefabricated. I wouldnt use it except on your girl.

Just tell then you dont buy drinks for strangers. Use it as a segway to getting to know her....;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
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Any girls who asks you for a drink does not want to get to know you. She just wants to use you. Think about this if a girl really wanted to know you she would should her interest other than saying "hey can you buy me a drink?" ....
 
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