"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NOT buying girls drinks how?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
check_mate_kid_uk
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hitmanchronicles
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HeartlessBtch
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GENTLEMEN here we have the typical egocentrical male who only thinks about gaining something in return of a favor...
Anyways Lovebot... check out this thread, it's along the lines of the same topic you might gain some insight
Girls and drinks
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hitmanchronicles
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.... well maybe except for my love.HeartlessBtch
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HeartlessBtch
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:crackup:
yes...if you want to know how to get a girl and keep her on a LTR off her feet ask this gentleman
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
iHatePants
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How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?
I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
HeartlessBtch
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Any girls who asks you for a drink does not want to get to know you. She just wants to use you. Think about this if a girl really wanted to know you she would should her interest other than saying "hey can you buy me a drink?" ....
diablo
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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=210410&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending
One in particular I thought was relevant:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18402
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