Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

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NOT buying girls drinks how?

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I mean i get asked every now and then from girls i pick up to buy em a drink.

Wondering how i can get away with not buying a girl a drink as i don't believe in that ****.

Without sounding like an ass...?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone as i have lost girls in the past from telling em straight "I don't buy girls drinks"
 
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just plainly say no
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Just say "only if we do body shot".
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GENTLEMEN here we have the typical egocentrical male who only thinks about gaining something in return of a favor...

Anyways Lovebot... check out this thread, it's along the lines of the same topic you might gain some insight

Girls and drinks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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LOL really? It's free.... uhmmm. So when I get home today can I get some of that "free" love :woo:
 
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Originally posted by hitmanchronicles
Baby, nothing is free in this world ;) .... well maybe except for my love.
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OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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:crackup:

yes...if you want to know how to get a girl and keep her on a LTR off her feet ask this gentleman
 
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Originally posted by LoveBOT
OMG gonna use this line....that's sooo smooth my man!
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Sounds prefabricated. I wouldnt use it except on your girl.

Just tell then you dont buy drinks for strangers. Use it as a segway to getting to know her....;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
 
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Originally posted by iHatePants
Here's a question I have about this:

How can you tell a girl who asks you for a drink that she actually wants to get to know you from a girl who simply is broke so she's takes advantage of you just so she can score a free drink?

I've seen girls who come up to my firends and tell them BS and ask for a drink and then once they get it they go back to talk to thier friends at the other end of the bar.
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Any girls who asks you for a drink does not want to get to know you. She just wants to use you. Think about this if a girl really wanted to know you she would should her interest other than saying "hey can you buy me a drink?" ....
 
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