I dont fap and surely wont fap to porn, decided to start 2023 by jizzing with a woman and managed to do it just yesterday night despite it needed basically a month.
Regarding porn I watch it very rarely and when I do it's just few seconds when Im bored to get in a better mood and increase the hungry part of libido.
I dont think the issue is fapping as long as you do rarely and without overstimulating yourself with degenerate porn.
I dont fap and surely wont fap to porn, decided to start 2023 by jizzing with a woman and managed to do it just yesterday night despite it needed basically a month.
Regarding porn I watch it very rarely and when I do it's just few seconds when Im bored to get in a better mood and increase the hungry part of libido.
Though I avoid porn (due to it's not real), I think there are two kinds of faps: some kind of dysfunctional, and healthy horniness. Some are addicted or have it as a coping mechanism/self-medication for stress, anxiety, etc. I think I'll have a challenge with the built-up horniness, but you never know if you'll smash the next day.
I don't do that, but I see your point. That may be why some fap, dopamine kicks as cope for depression.
Fantasy is enough for me. Text has same effect, if I read up on rap lyrics for instance.
Though I avoid porn (due to it's not real), I think there are two kinds of faps: some kind of dysfunctional, and healthy horniness. Some are addicted or have it as a coping mechanism/self-medication for stress, anxiety, etc. I think I'll have a challenge with the built-up horniness, but you never know if you'll smash the next day.
I believe it. Almost everyone is deficient, especially black people who need substantially more sunlight exposure to produce Vitamin D.
I take about 25,000-35,000 IU per week even in the summer (RDA is something like 800 IU per day which is laughable) and I attribute it's use at least in part to my superb bone health, immune system, and T levels.
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I recently met a girl who told me she never had a dildo until she was 30. She said she could've saved herself from many fecked up experiences by simply mastrubating more often. Maybe its the same for men.
I also had a colleague and he always said a good wank will save you 200 bucks of hooker money.
Its not a coincidence that this movement grew simultaneously with the rise of incels.
We just had no fap November. What's next, fap free February, abstinence April , jerk free July? If anything, I believe mastrubation is actually good and even somewhat necessary.
It's plausible that a man who doesn't fap will have be hornier than normal, but there's zero data about all this. Yes, it makes sense that a man wants to stay away from porn to regain some kind of control. If the focus was more on no porn, or about mastrubation without porn it would make more sense to me.
But hey whatever works for y'all..
I will follow the thread and see if anyone actually has s story on how nofap really improved anything.
I dont know. Everyones choice but for guys to say they havent had some of the most explosive orgasms from porn are flat out lying.
No fap is nothing more then AA without truth.
NoFap doesn't make much sense. As Ive commented a long time ago, it didn't fix anything because nothing was broken. I have a high sex drive regardless of if I get it from a woman or porn [I don't masturbate much anymore cause I like to keep energy for exercising]. I will say one thing, depriving yourself from sex eventually will make you jump to either a woman or masturbation. It's ideal to have a woman relieve you due to biology, but if you gotta take the edge off, do it anyway you can.
I’ll give this a shot and stick to intercourse only and also drop the porn. I am definitely interested to see how this goes. I asked a fwb to send me a sexy nude selfie later and already regretting it. Well, won’t go that far but gonna make it hard not to want to. Little extra motivation I guess.
Who here lifts? The free T from lifting plus no fap must be awful.
I dont know. Everyones choice but for guys to say they havent had some of the most explosive orgasms from porn are flat out lying.
No fap is nothing more then AA without truth.
I’m pretty sure the porn explosions are the exact point. The dopamine hit from 1: outrageous porn scenes plus 2: conditioning that sitting there watching and using your hands is the reason porn throws off your chemistry
im not going to lie. I’ve always been someone with insanely good endurance and I have always wondered if it was due to porn desensitization. There were spells in my 20’s which I thought were due to depression that I had some sexual concerns but maybe it was due to porn. Likewise, late 30’s my fitness is good and I test right with my blood levels so again, not that and yet even though, some concerns once in awhile about going unnecessarily long.
It’s great when you see a chick get off strictly by penetrating her and it’s super fun seeing her do it multiple times but it shouldn’t take you all night to get off yourself. I also have ADD and that could be part of it.
Have'nt fapped for two weeks. Had sex four times over last four days. Feel like my penis is a block of solid lead. Feel great, compared to when i fap...walk round feeling like i have a mini penis.
How this working out for people? I read up on it and it actually sounds like you have a pullback in libido which I actually can confirm, kind of disconcerting. They say it gets better
How this working out for people? I read up on it and it actually sounds like you have a pullback in libido which I actually can confirm, kind of disconcerting. They say it gets better
On day 4 of NoFap right now. Yesterday was crazy and I was horny AF but today was dry. I think work stress is what killed my boner lol. Interested in looking forward to tomorrow which would be day 5 and seeing how that goes. Last week I was on Day 4 I went ham and had to rub one out but held it in. My mind got more in my way than my body though and I rubbed one out to porn because I thought it be weird if I didn't.
It's been a libido tennis match but I think stress in life can play a big role. I have also been lifting every other day too.
On day 4 of NoFap right now. Yesterday was crazy and I was horny AF but today was dry. I think work stress is what killed my boner lol. Interested in looking forward to tomorrow which would be day 5 and seeing how that goes. Last week I was on Day 4 I went ham and had to rub one out but held it in. My mind got more in my way than my body though and I rubbed one out to porn because I thought it be weird if I didn't.
It's been a libido tennis match but I think stress in life can play a big role. I have also been lifting every other day too.
I noticed that along with significantly cutting caffeine, I haven’t rubbed one out in a week now and I had better sex, feel better overall, and getting boners a little more randomly throughout the day. I think the caffeine was also a huge part. Lack of good sleep is so bad.
I believe it. Almost everyone is deficient, especially black people who need substantially more sunlight exposure to produce Vitamin D.
I take about 25,000-35,000 IU per week even in the summer (RDA is something like 800 IU per day which is laughable) and I attribute it's use at least in part to my superb bone health, immune system, and T levels.
I was originally D-deficient. My doc has me on 2,000 IU per day. I’m tested annually and have D levels in normal range. (I’m white and pretty much avoid the sun completely.)
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I was originally D-deficient. My doc has me on 2,000 IU per day. I’m tested annually and have D levels in normal range. (I’m white and pretty much avoid the sun completely.)
I read about this no fap thing thing forever. I’ve never paid too much attention to it because I just don’t engage in it with any regularity sure when I was a kid.
Maybe I’m reaping the so-called benefits of it without ever having thought about it. For me, if ejaculating in a woman is 100% satisfaction, I’d say getting myself off is maybe 20% of that at best. It’s just never been a thing.
As far as porn is concerned, sometimes if I’m waiting to have a gal come over I’ll watch a few minutes of porn - but mostly pure amateur stuff, never have cared for the produced stuff: “Hey lady, I’m the plumber, ya needed me to lay some pipe?”.