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NoFap and game/sex field report thread, who wants to take part and report results?

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I hadn't fapped for a week as of Sunday. I was in a pissed off mood, I fapped and felt better.

The end.
 
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I hadn't fapped for a week as of Sunday. I was in a pissed off mood, I fapped and felt better.
That is correct. It leads to similarities of sex, perhaps hormones like oxytocin. It helps me fall asleep for instance. The problem is the costs of fapping.
 

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That is correct. It leads to similarities of sex, perhaps hormones like oxytocin. It helps me fall asleep for instance. The problem is the costs of fapping.
This took about 2 minutes of my time.

Day to day it doesn't make a difference for me. The only real benefit I've gotten from a no fap streak was giving a fb a huge facial.
 

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Nofap is so lame...
Thats right. Its a grift. I unplugged from that BS.
Tell your girl you are retaining for a month lol
There is an elephant in the room.
A guy can have great sex and orgasm by both having sex and watching porn. Thats a fact. And I bet many here already missed that obvious.

If OP really wants to get good at approach and game study Kayfabe and acting.

Get yourself some form of 2-3 minute monolougue books that acting students use to practice for audition and start practicing.
That will get him farther then his 100 a month useless threads on more manosphere hampster wheel spinning.

Game is about kayfabe and playing the game. Not this nonesense.
 

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I'd take part in the experiment, especially now I've quit alcohol as well as weed and tobacco but honestly
have no interest or desire to go out and talk to women so under the conditions of what the OP is asking
for I can't offer useable data even if I never beat off again.
 

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So is this the thread for the (not so) anonymous wankers ?

Unless you are a serious addict, this NoFap thing seems to be little more then an imaginary Wunderwaffe for incels to finaly get motivated enough to procure some pvssy.

Whatever one is expecting to get out of this, there are two things that will fall on his head:

1.) Growing neediness (women smell it from miles)
2.) Dangerous lack of post-nut-clarity
 

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So is this the thread for the (not so) anonymous wankers ?

Unless you are a serious addict, this NoFap thing seems to be little more then an imaginary Wunderwaffe for incels to finaly get motivated enough to procure some pvssy.

Whatever one is expecting to get out of this, there are two things that will fall on his head:

1.) Growing neediness (women smell it from miles)
2.) Dangerous lack of post-nut-clarity
I am starting to wonder if SoSuave is becoming the dating app of the manoswamp lol
 

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I hadn't fapped for a week as of Sunday. I was in a pissed off mood, I fapped and felt better.

The end.
There's nothing wrong with fapping, in fact not-fapping for sustained periods is not great, you could view it like a fast- you don't want to fast for 1-2 weeks every month, maybe only once a year then just stick with IM fasting the rest of the year.

The "nofap" movement largely misses the point - the devil is porn, not fapping. In fact, viewing porn without fapping is almost more harmful than fapping to porn because it just prolonges the use.

So is this the thread for the (not so) anonymous wankers ?

Unless you are a serious addict, this NoFap thing seems to be little more then an imaginary Wunderwaffe for incels to finaly get motivated enough to procure some pvssy.

Whatever one is expecting to get out of this, there are two things that will fall on his head:

1.) Growing neediness (women smell it from miles)
2.) Dangerous lack of post-nut-clarity
Most nofappers are simps who just think it will solve all of their problems then subsist on sheer willpower to try to not fap "never again, this is the first day of the rest of my life" as they often say. Then they inevitably do and the cycle repeats.

I'll repeat it again: porn is the problem. Somehow this still goes over their heads despite the movement being around for over a decade.
 

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Thats right. Its a grift. I unplugged from that BS.
Tell your girl you are retaining for a month lol
There is an elephant in the room.
A guy can have great sex and orgasm by both having sex and watching porn. Thats a fact. And I bet many here already missed that obvious.

If OP really wants to get good at approach and game study Kayfabe and acting.

Get yourself some form of 2-3 minute monolougue books that acting students use to practice for audition and start practicing.
That will get him farther then his 100 a month useless threads on more manosphere hampster wheel spinning.

Game is about kayfabe and playing the game. Not this nonesense.
I've already told Jesse to act like he has cancer, surely he can write and practice a monologue for that.
 

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Since everyone wants to shove their agenda in here rather than reading what the OP said, I will share my experience.

Got to 4 days of NoFap after a couple of months spent gaining a porn addiction due to my declining health.

First 3 days? Felt nothing.

Day 4, that's when I started to really feel it! That is when it hit.

Had a random moment this afternoon after work when I could not contain it and had a crazy erection.

Had a wild urge to do some cold approaches but we had 5 back to back meetings from 4 PM onwards so my Friday was delayed and local area usually dies out on weekdays for cold approach too. Trying to stay away from nightlife as I get my finances in order.

When I came today, it was a whole lot of it! Experience so far, need to get to at least day 4 before you start to feel any effects.
 

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this will be INSANELY tough for me.


but you know what? I will try.

posting here for accountability, starting.... now

hope to get to 4 days lol
 

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Thats right. Its a grift. I unplugged from that BS.
Tell your girl you are retaining for a month lol
There is an elephant in the room.
A guy can have great sex and orgasm by both having sex and watching porn. Thats a fact. And I bet many here already missed that obvious.

If OP really wants to get good at approach and game study Kayfabe and acting.

Get yourself some form of 2-3 minute monolougue books that acting students use to practice for audition and start practicing.
That will get him farther then his 100 a month useless threads on more manosphere hampster wheel spinning.

Game is about kayfabe and playing the game. Not this nonesense.
I recently met a girl who told me she never had a dildo until she was 30. She said she could've saved herself from many fecked up experiences by simply mastrubating more often. Maybe its the same for men.

I also had a colleague and he always said a good wank will save you 200 bucks of hooker money.
There's nothing wrong with fapping, in fact not-fapping for sustained periods is not great, you could view it like a fast- you don't want to fast for 1-2 weeks every month, maybe only once a year then just stick with IM fasting the rest of the year.

The "nofap" movement largely misses the point - the devil is porn, not fapping. In fact, viewing porn without fapping is almost more harmful than fapping to porn because it just prolonges the use.


Most nofappers are simps who just think it will solve all of their problems then subsist on sheer willpower to try to not fap "never again, this is the first day of the rest of my life" as they often say. Then they inevitably do and the cycle repeats.

I'll repeat it again: porn is the problem. Somehow this still goes over their heads despite the movement being around for over a decade.
Its not a coincidence that this movement grew simultaneously with the rise of incels.

We just had no fap November. What's next, fap free February, abstinence April , jerk free July? If anything, I believe mastrubation is actually good and even somewhat necessary.

It's plausible that a man who doesn't fap will have be hornier than normal, but there's zero data about all this. Yes, it makes sense that a man wants to stay away from porn to regain some kind of control. If the focus was more on no porn, or about mastrubation without porn it would make more sense to me.

But hey whatever works for y'all..
I will follow the thread and see if anyone actually has s story on how nofap really improved anything.
 
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