melancholy
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Argh this is frustrating but I'm at Day 9 now. Testosterone levels peaking. :crazy:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just thought Id chime in here since i have some experience w "nofap"lol. Its a good idea to mentally abstain as well, and actually "transmute" the sexual energy. This can be done a multitude of ways(exercise, meditation, etc) and will lead to even better results. Abstaining not only physically from masturbation/porn but also mentally is really what makes this very potent. Theres a reason why in a lot of spiritual traditions mental/physical abtaining is considered a prerequisite for growth, because it can bring you much higher energy and change you as a person in great ways. But it has to be subliminated and the mental abstaining has to be there as well or else its pretty worthless. So that would mean no fantasizing, etc and when you do feel an urge workout, meditate, work on something, etc. I went for 3 months last summer of doing it this way and it had some enormous effects. I had tried a few months prior to that but was still fantasizing, etc and not meditatiing and it wasnt the same. I havent read the whole thread so dont know if this aspect has been covered or not so just thought Id share my experience and what Ive read on a lot of forums of guys "retaining" . good luck.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
3 days so far, it's kind of tough but I will resist my urges lol
matt428carr
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Doing Great!
I was a pretty heavy fapper (every day for years, sometimes twice to porn) and this is the first time in years I've stopped for any length of time. Its day 6 for me and I feel great! Way more energy, and way more confident in everything I do. I have also knocked out all forms of porno, really being careful to not look at anything that even resembles it. I haven't really been the type to work out much, but I almost crave it now for some reason(must be testosterone), so thats next. I will also say that I seem to be putting off some sort of vibe or something, because I'm getting more attention from women and more respect or something from men. I'm not super horny at all and haven't been since I started, but I wonder if this will change? Seems as long as I stay away from the porn, I'm good.
I haven't ever had too much of an issue getting laid, but as I have gotten older(44), my game has slipped. I don't currently have a girlfriend or buddy, as I have been very busy with my career and school. I think the no-fap idea may be just the thing to restart my sex life, but I think it will do more than that in all aspects(seems to be at this point).
Wish me luck!
I was a pretty heavy fapper (every day for years, sometimes twice to porn) and this is the first time in years I've stopped for any length of time. Its day 6 for me and I feel great! Way more energy, and way more confident in everything I do. I have also knocked out all forms of porno, really being careful to not look at anything that even resembles it. I haven't really been the type to work out much, but I almost crave it now for some reason(must be testosterone), so thats next. I will also say that I seem to be putting off some sort of vibe or something, because I'm getting more attention from women and more respect or something from men. I'm not super horny at all and haven't been since I started, but I wonder if this will change? Seems as long as I stay away from the porn, I'm good.
I haven't ever had too much of an issue getting laid, but as I have gotten older(44), my game has slipped. I don't currently have a girlfriend or buddy, as I have been very busy with my career and school. I think the no-fap idea may be just the thing to restart my sex life, but I think it will do more than that in all aspects(seems to be at this point).
Wish me luck!
melancholy
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compleks said:
Untrue. I am proud to say I'm on Day 13 now. There was a LOT of temptation but I mostly keep it in check by keeping myself busy and being outgoing. Still going strong...
Eternal_water
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Well I'm in day 8. Getting laid is still something I've yet to achieve, ever.compleks said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
melancholy
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Day 15! More than two weeks of this ****...
I'm getting mad urges to kino excessively during dates....
I'm getting mad urges to kino excessively during dates....
TheMonkeyKing
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OK. Fine.
Day 1....
Day 1....
matt428carr
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Day 9... Hanging in there
3rd week.
I think I've successfully gotten over the withdrawal symptoms. I no longer have the urge to grab my tool; it's no longer calling out to me to do it. However, outside stimulus and alcohol tend to amplify the itch.
I think I've successfully gotten over the withdrawal symptoms. I no longer have the urge to grab my tool; it's no longer calling out to me to do it. However, outside stimulus and alcohol tend to amplify the itch.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
day 3
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Eternal_water
Master Don Juan
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double figure day 10
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
2 days clean..
TheMonkeyKing
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Back on day one....
Just had a good training sesh. Less inclined to spank the monkey.
Just had a good training sesh. Less inclined to spank the monkey.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Just wacked off good, ffsshshhh fsshshhh so good, sooo lonngg gayboys!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.