"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Stephen89

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Young OG

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I’m 41 and I’ve banged plenty of women in their 20s when I was in my 30s. You need to be in good physical shape and dress well. Plus it helps if your game is good. Don’t tell them your age unless they ask.
 

The Duke

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I've had several that were 10-20yrs younger than me all thru my 30's and 40's. All of them were girls I met in bars. I think they were more into me than I was them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RazorRambo24

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Yes, myself included but honestly man, I have a pretty young vibe to me.. and I can relate to alot of the cultures of younger people because I stay in tune/especially to hip hop culture which is one of he main cultures young people adhere to. I know how to act young and cool, even tho alot of my hobbies as I get older tend to be more mature, and the type of discussions I have and things I talk about tend to also be more mature.

For me though it depends on who I am talking to,.. I can pretty much vibe with anyone.
 

Ricky

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
myself and several of my friends including one who isnt particularly good at closing with women
 

Rainman4707

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I'm pretty convinced a 24 year old woman who works in same office at me wants me. She is constantly messaging me. I could be wrong. When you get that feeling she is into, you just know. Why? Well, im good looking, tough authority figure, laid back. Circumstances have put us working late in office together, so we chat a lot.
 

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
All the time it happens. I got with a 25 year old while in my mid 40s and she is still going strong.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm 31 and have never dated a girl over the age of about 27
I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
 

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I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
 

Bigpapa

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Most women are morons though, but in the sense of a young child

Usually the ones with badder temperament end up single by that age. My hypothesis is that the bad temperament just aggravates due to bitterness and depression
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Duke

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Yes. There is a high percentage of early 30 something chics with bad attitudes and mental issues. I imagine it's like growing pains after realizing they arent what they used to be looks wise, and can't snap their fingers and have 3 men jump. They either change their attitudes and develop some new relationship skills or grow angry and get pumped and dumped until they give up.
 
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