"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stephen89

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Young OG

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I’m 41 and I’ve banged plenty of women in their 20s when I was in my 30s. You need to be in good physical shape and dress well. Plus it helps if your game is good. Don’t tell them your age unless they ask.
 

The Duke

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I've had several that were 10-20yrs younger than me all thru my 30's and 40's. All of them were girls I met in bars. I think they were more into me than I was them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RazorRambo24

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Yes, myself included but honestly man, I have a pretty young vibe to me.. and I can relate to alot of the cultures of younger people because I stay in tune/especially to hip hop culture which is one of he main cultures young people adhere to. I know how to act young and cool, even tho alot of my hobbies as I get older tend to be more mature, and the type of discussions I have and things I talk about tend to also be more mature.

For me though it depends on who I am talking to,.. I can pretty much vibe with anyone.
 

Ricky

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
myself and several of my friends including one who isnt particularly good at closing with women
 

Rainman4707

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I'm pretty convinced a 24 year old woman who works in same office at me wants me. She is constantly messaging me. I could be wrong. When you get that feeling she is into, you just know. Why? Well, im good looking, tough authority figure, laid back. Circumstances have put us working late in office together, so we chat a lot.
 

BackInTheGame78

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
All the time it happens. I got with a 25 year old while in my mid 40s and she is still going strong.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bigpapa

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I'm 31 and have never dated a girl over the age of about 27
I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
 

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I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
 

Bigpapa

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Most women are morons though, but in the sense of a young child

Usually the ones with badder temperament end up single by that age. My hypothesis is that the bad temperament just aggravates due to bitterness and depression
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Duke

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Yes. There is a high percentage of early 30 something chics with bad attitudes and mental issues. I imagine it's like growing pains after realizing they arent what they used to be looks wise, and can't snap their fingers and have 3 men jump. They either change their attitudes and develop some new relationship skills or grow angry and get pumped and dumped until they give up.
 
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