"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stephen89

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Young OG

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I’m 41 and I’ve banged plenty of women in their 20s when I was in my 30s. You need to be in good physical shape and dress well. Plus it helps if your game is good. Don’t tell them your age unless they ask.
 

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I've had several that were 10-20yrs younger than me all thru my 30's and 40's. All of them were girls I met in bars. I think they were more into me than I was them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes, myself included but honestly man, I have a pretty young vibe to me.. and I can relate to alot of the cultures of younger people because I stay in tune/especially to hip hop culture which is one of he main cultures young people adhere to. I know how to act young and cool, even tho alot of my hobbies as I get older tend to be more mature, and the type of discussions I have and things I talk about tend to also be more mature.

For me though it depends on who I am talking to,.. I can pretty much vibe with anyone.
 

Ricky

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
myself and several of my friends including one who isnt particularly good at closing with women
 

Rainman4707

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
I'm pretty convinced a 24 year old woman who works in same office at me wants me. She is constantly messaging me. I could be wrong. When you get that feeling she is into, you just know. Why? Well, im good looking, tough authority figure, laid back. Circumstances have put us working late in office together, so we chat a lot.
 

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I'm 34 and approaching women

Does anyone know of a man in their mid-late 30s who got with a women in her 20s?

It may depend on how much you have going for you, if you keep yourself in shape etc

I know two males 35, who got with women 9-10 years younger than them
All the time it happens. I got with a 25 year old while in my mid 40s and she is still going strong.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bigpapa

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I'm 31 and have never dated a girl over the age of about 27
I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
 

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I am 33 now and rarely dated/ banged girls over 30

Sometimes I did mainly because I really liked them but most of the time I do Don”t because they usually come with a bad attitude and it ain’t worth it

Actually I remembered now that the oldest one was 32 when I was 24. She had something about her that made me be on fire when around her
I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
 

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Most women are morons though, but in the sense of a young child

Usually the ones with badder temperament end up single by that age. My hypothesis is that the bad temperament just aggravates due to bitterness and depression
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Duke

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I find women after about 28/29 start developing seriously bad attitude problems

Its usually when the attention starts to dry up or is moving onto younger models

Women are very dumb if they don't settle before this age I mean most attractive women literally have the pick of the crop for nearly 10 years if you don't capitalise on that you are a fvcking moron
Yes. There is a high percentage of early 30 something chics with bad attitudes and mental issues. I imagine it's like growing pains after realizing they arent what they used to be looks wise, and can't snap their fingers and have 3 men jump. They either change their attitudes and develop some new relationship skills or grow angry and get pumped and dumped until they give up.
 
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