"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shaunuk

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Nah, don't do that routine, it's crap. There's no squats or deadlifts and it's just generally whack.

Do this instead.

monday
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squats 3x5
pullthroughs
chinups 3xfailure
calves

wednesday
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incline bench 3x5
flat db press 3x8
db shoulder press 2x8
triceps

friday
--
deadlifts 3x5
chinups 3xfailure
curls

or just anything based around squats deadlifts bench rather than leg extensions :)
 

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quick advice: get advice from anywhere but bodybuilding.com. it's not that it's all useless, it's just hard to sort out the wheat from the chaff there...
 

ChrizZ

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shaunuk said:
Nah, don't do that routine, it's crap. There's no squats or deadlifts and it's just generally whack.

Do this instead.

monday
--
squats 3x5
pullthroughs
chinups 3xfailure
calves

wednesday
---
incline bench 3x5
flat db press 3x8
db shoulder press 2x8
triceps

friday
--
deadlifts 3x5
chinups 3xfailure
curls

or just anything based around squats deadlifts bench rather than leg extensions :)
sounds good.

I'd like some more opinions though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EFFORT

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ChrizZ said:
sounds good.

I'd like some more opinions though.
my opinion is to listen to shaun and throttle
 

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I like to apply the KISS (Keep It Simple, Stupid) method. Shaun's routine looks solid to me, do it for 12 weeks or so to see if it works. The routine in that link you gave seems ok, but there seem to be a few unnecessary lifts in there, at least for a beginner. Focus on the big compound lifts first, then add some isolation movements in later, if you feel the need to. Eat well, lift progressively heavier weights, and keep well-rested.
 

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SAFC said:
I like to apply the KISS (Keep It Simple, Stupid) method. Shaun's routine looks solid to me, do it for 12 weeks or so to see if it works. The routine in that link you gave seems ok, but there seem to be a few unnecessary lifts in there, at least for a beginner. Focus on the big compound lifts first, then add some isolation movements in later, if you feel the need to. Eat well, lift progressively heavier weights, and keep well-rested.
I found a better one

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/matt94.htm
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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