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user43770
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I can't troll without you guys being prominent
That was the only reason I came here for a long time
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That was the only reason I came here for a long time
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
TL; DR
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I only hit the report button on moderator posts. It sends each of them an email and is the only way to say your mind without getting deleted.
Truth is that one newer mod only uses his mod power to promote a right wing political agenda. Any time I point that out, he threatens to ban me for being political.
They also seem to have invented a new rule, which is not in the terms of service, that kissing mod ass is a requirement here. When you point out how much they suck at their jobs, that is a bannable offense. What a fvcking joke.
logicallefty
Moderator
Kinda funny cuz you and another member have been bickering back and fourth and based on history records we keep on everyone he is now temp banned and you are not. But you have been temporary banned twice in the past so I can promise you your next one is gonna be permanent. I would lay low if I were you dude. Seriously.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
I’ve always wondered...
If someone hates a place or thing so much, why continue going there? I don’t like basketball, so I’m not going to go to an arena and then complain abou it and say negative thing. I just won’t go.
If someone hates a place or thing so much, why continue going there? I don’t like basketball, so I’m not going to go to an arena and then complain abou it and say negative thing. I just won’t go.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
logicallefty
Moderator
When I asked that same question the explanation I was given with that sosuave is a breeding ground for right wing extremist. And we need people who hate the place to come and keep us all in check So that the next Timothy McVeigh does not come from here. Again, that is just how it was explained to me.
He might have some kind of inner need to have enemies. The human imagination is quite resourceful, so now some members and the moderators that volunteer their time to keep this Forum running smoothly within its rules are now his opponents. Not very logical, but then emotional issues rarely are.
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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He seems a lot smarter cause after we made him notice that spamming 30 posts daily was not compatible with bragging "a life" he quit doing it and posts only when he has something to say.
The magic words were: "bro you do this and that yet you have almost 8500 posts in 2 years and stay here the whole day".
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user43770
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I doubt that's the reason, because i said the same thing to him a year ago. Trolled him pretty hard about it.
My guess is he's busy with work or life, or he's finally realized the futility in it all.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What futility?
As for the rest, here's something to ponder;
If I were to call a stupid man stupid, he'd be insulted because it's true and would proceed to make up all sorts of cope reasons.
Now if I were to call a smart man stupid, what will his reaction be?
Will he enjoy it because he knows its not true?
Will he toy around and turn things around because he could?
Will he see that as opportunity to send a message?
To be honest, I'm actually quite dismayed with the banning of @ShePays, the man has passion for his politics, many of which I don't subscribe to but I do in some aspects respect him for wanting to improve his country - through his own lens or worldview.
If some of you guys disagree with him, then by all means counter him directly as a man should.
But this goes way beyond ShePays, there were some men here who were also banned, men who clearly has autism, why can't they be allowed to post to their hearts content?
If some of you men here don't like their threads, don't read it, problem solved, but many of you just simply had to be triggered and report like a bunch of old hags.
Y'all need to realise that men who come here are like children.
Everything is new and they want to explore.
The Mods here shouldn't be like mothers who would stop their son's from jumping in a puddle because it would dirty them.
That's what kills their thirst - curiosity - learning curve.
Y'all should be like fathers, he would understand and must acknowledge that sons are curious, creates chaos, naughty, brave, mischievous and a bunch of entities that's the complete opposite of females.
You see, all those child like behaviour, is what actually makes men do incredible things.
So don't kill that.
If some of you guys disagree with him, then by all means counter him directly as a man should.
But this goes way beyond ShePays, there were some men here who were also banned, men who clearly has autism, why can't they be allowed to post to their hearts content?
If some of you men here don't like their threads, don't read it, problem solved, but many of you just simply had to be triggered and report like a bunch of old hags.
Y'all need to realise that men who come here are like children.
Everything is new and they want to explore.
The Mods here shouldn't be like mothers who would stop their son's from jumping in a puddle because it would dirty them.
That's what kills their thirst - curiosity - learning curve.
Y'all should be like fathers, he would understand and must acknowledge that sons are curious, creates chaos, naughty, brave, mischievous and a bunch of entities that's the complete opposite of females.
You see, all those child like behaviour, is what actually makes men do incredible things.
So don't kill that.
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user43770
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The futility in new guys not listening to you. The futility in old guys not listening to you, either.
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user43770
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@ShePays is a great guy, and don't you belittle his reputation with your recommendation lol. That guy has more sense than I would know what to do with.
That's definitely a gay ban, in my opinion, but I think that all bans are gay, so what do I know?
I'll tell you what, this one was really gay.
It doesn't matter because there's enough men who listens.
A man needs constant reminder to change their old habits.
And a man needs even longer to change their mindset because it is not easy to admit that they were wrong, in how they think, since it is also an admission of their inferiority - these things take time.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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user43770
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Glad you found the error in your ways, brother.
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user43770
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And I'm not just gonna troll you. This is a great post.
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user43770
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I honestly don't think there are that many men that listen.
I like to troll posters I respect, but that's basically a call for you to change my mind.
It doesn't happen often, but it happens. And I welcome it.
The older I get, the less "a ha" moments I have.
And those always made me happier than anything. Even pvssy.
I like to troll posters I respect, but that's basically a call for you to change my mind.
It doesn't happen often, but it happens. And I welcome it.
The older I get, the less "a ha" moments I have.
And those always made me happier than anything. Even pvssy.
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user43770
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I'd like to say thanks again to the mods.
Obviously, you can't please everyone, but by keeping discussions open, you're changing minds! You're getting to see smart, masculine men debate.
Where else does that happen these days?
Literally nowhere.
Obviously, you can't please everyone, but by keeping discussions open, you're changing minds! You're getting to see smart, masculine men debate.
Where else does that happen these days?
Literally nowhere.
If you were really so great with women and so successful in life you wouldn't be posting so much and especially posting the things you post. You constantly behave you're like the authority on here about what's alpha dominant behavior and what is not. You think you have everyone figure out the point you have papers taped to your walls with connecting lines like a conspiracy theorist.
You're very pretentious and you certainly understand the patterns of how to do this thing, and most definitely can regurgitate the red pill theory stuff, but you seem insecure because you always feel the need to lord over people on a men's internet forum.
You also obviously majored in some sort of social science which is a big part of whatever you're career is.
But if you were really as great as you make yourself seem I highly doubt you'd feel the need to say the things you say on here. I don't really believe you and I don't think a lot of people on here do either. You say the right things, your understand the theory, but you rarely give examples. You're probably Thad guru guy and full of sh1t.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.