"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spaz, you're a good man. As is guru, she pays and stormrider. Y'all took a lot of trolling and gave it right back.
I can't troll without you guys being prominent :(

That was the only reason I came here for a long time
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You don't necessarily have to report them, based on some liberal rag you read every day
I only hit the report button on moderator posts. It sends each of them an email and is the only way to say your mind without getting deleted.

Truth is that one newer mod only uses his mod power to promote a right wing political agenda. Any time I point that out, he threatens to ban me for being political.

They also seem to have invented a new rule, which is not in the terms of service, that kissing mod ass is a requirement here. When you point out how much they suck at their jobs, that is a bannable offense. What a fvcking joke.
 

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I only hit the report button on moderator posts. It sends each of them an email and is the only way to say your mind without getting deleted.

Truth is that one newer mod only uses his mod power to promote a right wing political agenda. Any time I point that out, he threatens to ban me for being political.

They also seem to have invented a new rule, which is not in the terms of service, that kissing mod ass is a requirement here. When you point out how much they suck at their jobs, that is a bannable offense. What a fvcking joke.
Kinda funny cuz you and another member have been bickering back and fourth and based on history records we keep on everyone he is now temp banned and you are not. But you have been temporary banned twice in the past so I can promise you your next one is gonna be permanent. I would lay low if I were you dude. Seriously.
 

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I’ve always wondered...

If someone hates a place or thing so much, why continue going there? I don’t like basketball, so I’m not going to go to an arena and then complain abou it and say negative thing. I just won’t go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I’ve always wondered...

If someone hates a place or thing so much, why continue going there? I don’t like basketball, so I’m not going to go to an arena and then complain abou it and say negative thing. I just won’t go.
When I asked that same question the explanation I was given with that sosuave is a breeding ground for right wing extremist. And we need people who hate the place to come and keep us all in check So that the next Timothy McVeigh does not come from here. Again, that is just how it was explained to me.
 

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When I asked that same question the explanation I was given with that sosuave is a breeding ground for right wing extremist. And we need people who hate the place to come and keep us all in check So that the next Timothy McVeigh does not come from here. Again, that is just how it was explained to me.
He might have some kind of inner need to have enemies. The human imagination is quite resourceful, so now some members and the moderators that volunteer their time to keep this Forum running smoothly within its rules are now his opponents. Not very logical, but then emotional issues rarely are.
 

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I only hit the report button on moderator posts. It sends each of them an email and is the only way to say your mind without getting deleted.

Truth is that one newer mod only uses his mod power to promote a right wing political agenda. Any time I point that out, he threatens to ban me for being political.

They also seem to have invented a new rule, which is not in the terms of service, that kissing mod ass is a requirement here. When you point out how much they suck at their jobs, that is a bannable offense. What a fvcking joke.
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You seem a lot smarter without that creepy skeleton picture.
He seems a lot smarter cause after we made him notice that spamming 30 posts daily was not compatible with bragging "a life" he quit doing it and posts only when he has something to say.

The magic words were: "bro you do this and that yet you have almost 8500 posts in 2 years and stay here the whole day".
 
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He seems a lot smarter cause after we made him notice that spamming 30 posts daily was not compatible with bragging "a life" he quit doing it and posts only when he has something to say.

The magic words were: "bro you do this and that yet you have almost 8500 posts in 2 years and stay here the whole day".
I doubt that's the reason, because i said the same thing to him a year ago. Trolled him pretty hard about it.

My guess is he's busy with work or life, or he's finally realized the futility in it all.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I doubt that's the reason, because i said the same thing to him a year ago. Trolled him pretty hard about it.

My guess is he's busy with work or life, or he's finally realized the futility in it all.
What futility?

As for the rest, here's something to ponder;

If I were to call a stupid man stupid, he'd be insulted because it's true and would proceed to make up all sorts of cope reasons.

Now if I were to call a smart man stupid, what will his reaction be?

Will he enjoy it because he knows its not true?

Will he toy around and turn things around because he could?

Will he see that as opportunity to send a message?
 

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To be honest, I'm actually quite dismayed with the banning of @ShePays, the man has passion for his politics, many of which I don't subscribe to but I do in some aspects respect him for wanting to improve his country - through his own lens or worldview.

If some of you guys disagree with him, then by all means counter him directly as a man should.

But this goes way beyond ShePays, there were some men here who were also banned, men who clearly has autism, why can't they be allowed to post to their hearts content?

If some of you men here don't like their threads, don't read it, problem solved, but many of you just simply had to be triggered and report like a bunch of old hags.

Y'all need to realise that men who come here are like children.

Everything is new and they want to explore.

The Mods here shouldn't be like mothers who would stop their son's from jumping in a puddle because it would dirty them.

That's what kills their thirst - curiosity - learning curve.

Y'all should be like fathers, he would understand and must acknowledge that sons are curious, creates chaos, naughty, brave, mischievous and a bunch of entities that's the complete opposite of females.

You see, all those child like behaviour, is what actually makes men do incredible things.

So don't kill that.
 
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What futility?

As for the rest, here's something to ponder;

If I were to call a stupid man stupid, he'd be insulted because it's true and would proceed to make up all sorts of cope reasons.

Now if I were to call a smart man stupid, what will his reaction be?

Will he enjoy it because he knows its not true?

Will he toy around and turn things around because he could?

Will he see that as opportunity to send a message?
The futility in new guys not listening to you. The futility in old guys not listening to you, either.
 
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To be honest, I'm actually quite dismayed with the banning of @ShePays, the man has passion for his politics, many of which I don't subscribe to but I do in some aspects respect him for wanting to improve his country - through his own lens or worldview.

If some of you guys disagree with him, then by all means counter him directly as a man should.

But this goes way beyond ShePays, there were some men here who were also banned, men who clearly has autism, why can't they be allowed to post to their hearts content?

If some of you men here don't like their threads, don't read it, problem solved, but many of you just simply had to be triggered and report like a bunch of old hags.

Y'all need to realise that men who come here are like children.

Everything is new and they want to explore.

The Mods here shouldn't be like mothers who would stop their son's from jumping in a puddle because it would dirty them.

That's what kills their thirst - curiosity - learning curve.

Y'all should be like fathers, he would understand and must acknowledge that sons are curious, creates chaos, naughty, brave, mischievous and a bunch of entities that's the complete opposite of females.

You see, all those child like behaviour, is what actually makes men do incredible things.

So don't kill that.
@ShePays is a great guy, and don't you belittle his reputation with your recommendation lol. That guy has more sense than I would know what to do with.

That's definitely a gay ban, in my opinion, but I think that all bans are gay, so what do I know?

I'll tell you what, this one was really gay.
 

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The futility in new guys not listening to you. The futility in old guys not listening to you, either.
It doesn't matter because there's enough men who listens.

A man needs constant reminder to change their old habits.

And a man needs even longer to change their mindset because it is not easy to admit that they were wrong, in how they think, since it is also an admission of their inferiority - these things take time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It doesn't matter because there's enough men who listens.

A man needs constant reminder to change their old habits.

And a man needs even longer to change their mindset because it is not easy to admit that they were wrong, in how they think, since it is also an admission of their inferiority - these things take time.
Glad you found the error in your ways, brother.
 
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It doesn't matter because there's enough men who listens.

A man needs constant reminder to change their old habits.

And a man needs even longer to change their mindset because it is not easy to admit that they were wrong, in how they think, since it is also an admission of their inferiority - these things take time.
And I'm not just gonna troll you. This is a great post.
 
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I honestly don't think there are that many men that listen.

I like to troll posters I respect, but that's basically a call for you to change my mind.

It doesn't happen often, but it happens. And I welcome it.

The older I get, the less "a ha" moments I have.

And those always made me happier than anything. Even pvssy.
 
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I'd like to say thanks again to the mods.

Obviously, you can't please everyone, but by keeping discussions open, you're changing minds! You're getting to see smart, masculine men debate.

Where else does that happen these days?

Literally nowhere.
 

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What futility?

As for the rest, here's something to ponder;

If I were to call a stupid man stupid, he'd be insulted because it's true and would proceed to make up all sorts of cope reasons.

Now if I were to call a smart man stupid, what will his reaction be?

Will he enjoy it because he knows its not true?

Will he toy around and turn things around because he could?

Will he see that as opportunity to send a message?
If you were really so great with women and so successful in life you wouldn't be posting so much and especially posting the things you post. You constantly behave you're like the authority on here about what's alpha dominant behavior and what is not. You think you have everyone figure out the point you have papers taped to your walls with connecting lines like a conspiracy theorist.

You're very pretentious and you certainly understand the patterns of how to do this thing, and most definitely can regurgitate the red pill theory stuff, but you seem insecure because you always feel the need to lord over people on a men's internet forum.

You also obviously majored in some sort of social science which is a big part of whatever you're career is.

But if you were really as great as you make yourself seem I highly doubt you'd feel the need to say the things you say on here. I don't really believe you and I don't think a lot of people on here do either. You say the right things, your understand the theory, but you rarely give examples. You're probably Thad guru guy and full of sh1t.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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