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user43770
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I was going to say the exact same thing
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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user43770
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You have to be trolling at this point in your sosuave career.
Sure, this forum is mostly conservative, but men a generally conservative.
And you always go back to the same, tired platitude about right-wing extremists. You've been doing it for years.
Sosuave has never attracted that type of crowd and you know it. Go drink a guiness, pick your garden and seethe at the thought of America being great for 4 more years
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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So much toxic masculinity right? and I heard they even play videogames like call of duty and grand theft auto.
logicallefty
Moderator
Absolutely for sure. I can remember in the last probably five years they were 180,000 members. The site administrator at one point cut out about half of those down to about 60,000. Due to inactivity I believe. Now we are back up around 96,000.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Strongly suggest the following, to make it an overall balanced mod team,
1. ALAN - motivator/dominant personality.
2. Atom Smasher - unknown profile, hangs somewhere between, a doer/motivator/nerd but a dominant.
3. Igetit, logicallefty and another fella that's seldom around (forgot his name but he's a bpd loverboy) - expressives/passive personality.
4. Baby Bill - intellectual/passive personality.
5. Des, Amante and another one more fella I forgot his name but stalks the forum - Doers/Dominant personality.
You guys only need 1 motivator per team (which u hv in Alan) and the REST should ideally be spread out equally to maintain balance.
From the above list, it's the intellectual personality that's lacking.
So there's zekko, samspade and a couple more nerds around that should consider signing up.
BTW TyTe u r an intellectual....
1. ALAN - motivator/dominant personality.
2. Atom Smasher - unknown profile, hangs somewhere between, a doer/motivator/nerd but a dominant.
3. Igetit, logicallefty and another fella that's seldom around (forgot his name but he's a bpd loverboy) - expressives/passive personality.
4. Baby Bill - intellectual/passive personality.
5. Des, Amante and another one more fella I forgot his name but stalks the forum - Doers/Dominant personality.
You guys only need 1 motivator per team (which u hv in Alan) and the REST should ideally be spread out equally to maintain balance.
From the above list, it's the intellectual personality that's lacking.
So there's zekko, samspade and a couple more nerds around that should consider signing up.
BTW TyTe u r an intellectual....
logicallefty
Moderator
@Atom Smasher Was definitely our motivator. No question about that. Teamwork is definitely important for us. We try to enforce rules the same and make group decisions when it comes to banning people. Any new addition to our team is going to have their post history reviewed and we will also review how many times they have been warned or temporarily banned. The ideal candidate will not have a history of getting into bickering matches with people. Those of us above who you say have a passive personality, Keep in mind that being a moderator requires some tact and discretion. There are things we might want to say on the public forum but we practice restraint because that’s part of our job.
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Master Don Juan
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I suggest Mike32ct, we need a balanced guy that is as clever as civilized.
7onriverI f
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I suggest corrector. His name alone should get him a spot. He corrects.
Igetit!
Moderator
I'm actually around A LOT MORE than people may realize. I just spend like 95% of my time in the background....usually replying to private messages. I probably have more PM posts than regular ones,like 3 times as many.
Another thing is,I don't like to OVER-moderate. I don't believe in jumping on members for every little infraction.
I like to let people talk,have free expression.....share different points of view,agree or disagree,and challenge each other. It's only if it gets to name-calling,insults,and personal attacks that I'd prefer to step in.
Good luck to those of you who decide to throw your hats in the ring to be a moderator. And to whoever is selected,I can't wait til the first time you log in here after not having been here for a day or two,only to see random members calling you "stupid","unfair",or accusing you of being on a power trip because "so and so" got banned....when you YOURSELF just found out they got banned cause you hadn't been here all day.
But hey.....it comes with the territory.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
We're probably already being watched and catalogued as a hate speech site. There are several research projects underway to track sites like these. Asking for moderators to work for free, while they run the chance of being associated with this place whenever the sh1t does hit the fan, well that's just irresponsible.
Sosuave search for "the jews"
Mike32ct
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Thank you.
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user43770
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I've been around this forum for 20 years and I couldn't think of a better person.
Samspade a close second.
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user43770
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Coming to terms with the state of the sexual market place is enough to make any man angry. We all know that, brother.
But we have a solid bunch of regulars that help them through it. You're one of them. I've been kicking around for 20 years and I've never seen anyone be overly outrageous
Not a bad collection of Moderator locked threads, ones containing banned posters, and ancient ones to boot. Peddle conspiracy on forums that promote it, we kick that trash to the curb here…
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
logicallefty
Moderator
Good Google search too. lots of ways to make Google find anything you want with quotes, switches, etc.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
Damn, you just saw right through to what he was really expressing? Tyte the empath.
backseatjuan
Banned
You kids are hyperactive.
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user43770
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You see right through my troll persona, brother. Not sure how
Black Widow Void
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I'm too combative to those I view as "bully like" toward new members (and I'm comfortable being this way) . I wouldn't be a good fit.
However, Zekko seems respected and a lot more laid back (in a good way) .
I'd like to nominate Zekko.
However, Zekko seems respected and a lot more laid back (in a good way) .
I'd like to nominate Zekko.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.