HahahaNo worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
HahahaNo worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.No worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
HahahaSo true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
You aren’t wrong. If you are dating a girl with bpd and you stay with her up until she discards you. You were a weak man.So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
A reason is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, with everyone involved taking accountability for their part in a situation.A reason to avoid holding an opinion on the matter, not to have one.
I'm not calling anyone a liar, I genuinely believe all you guys think your Ex was BPD.Never said that, in fact many of the men here are highly narcissistic or codependent. However, that doesn't mean they are lying or wrong about what they experienced.
You don’t have the answers SWAY!Not presumptuous at all
And every guy has Asperger's.No worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't get your analogy but Aldi is the best place ever. £20 shopping there will last me 2 weeks.Bpd is sort of like the sasquatch. In so much as you have a few internet enthusiasts that insist it exists. And if you have a good drink, squint your eyes real hard, you can sort of even see what they're getting at. You might even decide to be super precatious when travelling in the woods for fear of encountering the beast.
But then people are making regular sightings of the sasquatch coming out of Aldi supermarket and getting into a vehicle. At which point you need to start deciding how much impact the sasquatch is going to have on your own perception of everyday life.
Even though a psychiatrist told me I didn't?Just you and bigdave
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
its called hit and run son. You treat her like a crash test dummy only you nut on her face upon final impactAvoidance or smash & dash are the only real viable options when dealing with severely toxic women.