HahahaNo worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
HahahaNo worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.No worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
HahahaSo true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
You aren’t wrong. If you are dating a girl with bpd and you stay with her up until she discards you. You were a weak man.So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
A reason is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, with everyone involved taking accountability for their part in a situation.A reason to avoid holding an opinion on the matter, not to have one.
I'm not calling anyone a liar, I genuinely believe all you guys think your Ex was BPD.Never said that, in fact many of the men here are highly narcissistic or codependent. However, that doesn't mean they are lying or wrong about what they experienced.
You don’t have the answers SWAY!Not presumptuous at all
And every guy has Asperger's.No worries bro.
Every guy in here labels every girl "BPD" if they don't get what they want from her.
That way the guys reputation is still in tact if she doesn't act accordingly. Makes her seem crazy, makes him look good.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't get your analogy but Aldi is the best place ever. £20 shopping there will last me 2 weeks.Bpd is sort of like the sasquatch. In so much as you have a few internet enthusiasts that insist it exists. And if you have a good drink, squint your eyes real hard, you can sort of even see what they're getting at. You might even decide to be super precatious when travelling in the woods for fear of encountering the beast.
But then people are making regular sightings of the sasquatch coming out of Aldi supermarket and getting into a vehicle. At which point you need to start deciding how much impact the sasquatch is going to have on your own perception of everyday life.
Even though a psychiatrist told me I didn't?Just you and bigdave
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
its called hit and run son. You treat her like a crash test dummy only you nut on her face upon final impactAvoidance or smash & dash are the only real viable options when dealing with severely toxic women.