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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nasty break up! please help im a mess
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Murk
Master Don Juan
So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
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Rapport101
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You aren’t wrong. If you are dating a girl with bpd and you stay with her up until she discards you. You were a weak man.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Oh come LA - you seriously think every guy here is the good guy while it’s the crazy girl that f’d them over.
I’ve been guilty myself of viewing a relationship biasedly and later realising how sh1t I was. Sometimes men make women go a little nuts, doesn’t automatically make the girl BPD. That’s ridiculous.
I’ve been guilty myself of viewing a relationship biasedly and later realising how sh1t I was. Sometimes men make women go a little nuts, doesn’t automatically make the girl BPD. That’s ridiculous.
A reason is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, with everyone involved taking accountability for their part in a situation.
An excuse is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, that always involves the blame being put on someone else; BPD ex girlfriend.
Merely stating a fact. Not an opinion.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I'm not calling anyone a liar, I genuinely believe all you guys think your Ex was BPD.
I just think you're wrong/misguided.
Murk
Master Don Juan
You don’t have the answers SWAY!
Ok ok, I’m just guessing, I can’t truly know what happened in anyone’s individual relationships. What I do know is I have not encountered any BPD chicks, neither have my friends. Somehow 75% of the guys here have. I’m making an educated guess. Very open to the fact I’m completely wrong, your protestation would imply you’re said BPD ex man. God speed.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
And every guy has Asperger's.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I don't get your analogy but Aldi is the best place ever. £20 shopping there will last me 2 weeks.
Life derailed by a BPD? Yep, I've been there as have many others here. The cure is NC and working out why she could mesmerise and manipulate you. I really do sympathise though as I can recall being right where you are. Giving it too you straight.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Even though a psychiatrist told me I didn't?
I should listen to the experts of SoSuave.net?
DEEZEDBRAH
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loses job and girl jumps on the next ****. Classic!
I've never heard women and their hypergamy to dare do such a thing.
I've never heard women and their hypergamy to dare do such a thing.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DEEZEDBRAH
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its called hit and run son. You treat her like a crash test dummy only you nut on her face upon final impact