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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nasty break up! please help im a mess
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Murk
Master Don Juan
So true. I’m yet to meet a BPD chick, but somehow every guy here’s ex is one.
Time to take accountability for being a sh1t boyfriend/weak man, guys.
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Rapport101
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You aren’t wrong. If you are dating a girl with bpd and you stay with her up until she discards you. You were a weak man.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Murk
Master Don Juan
Oh come LA - you seriously think every guy here is the good guy while it’s the crazy girl that f’d them over.
I’ve been guilty myself of viewing a relationship biasedly and later realising how sh1t I was. Sometimes men make women go a little nuts, doesn’t automatically make the girl BPD. That’s ridiculous.
I’ve been guilty myself of viewing a relationship biasedly and later realising how sh1t I was. Sometimes men make women go a little nuts, doesn’t automatically make the girl BPD. That’s ridiculous.
A reason is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, with everyone involved taking accountability for their part in a situation.
An excuse is an explanation 4 why something is the way it is, that always involves the blame being put on someone else; BPD ex girlfriend.
Merely stating a fact. Not an opinion.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I'm not calling anyone a liar, I genuinely believe all you guys think your Ex was BPD.
I just think you're wrong/misguided.
Murk
Master Don Juan
You don’t have the answers SWAY!
Ok ok, I’m just guessing, I can’t truly know what happened in anyone’s individual relationships. What I do know is I have not encountered any BPD chicks, neither have my friends. Somehow 75% of the guys here have. I’m making an educated guess. Very open to the fact I’m completely wrong, your protestation would imply you’re said BPD ex man. God speed.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
And every guy has Asperger's.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Murk
Master Don Juan
I don't get your analogy but Aldi is the best place ever. £20 shopping there will last me 2 weeks.
Life derailed by a BPD? Yep, I've been there as have many others here. The cure is NC and working out why she could mesmerise and manipulate you. I really do sympathise though as I can recall being right where you are. Giving it too you straight.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
Even though a psychiatrist told me I didn't?
I should listen to the experts of SoSuave.net?
DEEZEDBRAH
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loses job and girl jumps on the next ****. Classic!
I've never heard women and their hypergamy to dare do such a thing.
I've never heard women and their hypergamy to dare do such a thing.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DEEZEDBRAH
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its called hit and run son. You treat her like a crash test dummy only you nut on her face upon final impact