"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My LTR of 1.5 years left the bar with another guy...
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
cordoncordon
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He's trying to be an extreme example of an AFC.
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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The guy could've wiped the floor with me.CHICAGO27 said:
Badmannaz
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pipe007 said:
idk if you know for sure this is fake then thats just pathetic to make up a story like this...but truth be told i was thinking this **** was unbelievable when i was reading it.. but if it is true...i wuldnt be suprised....
Sometimes it's better to show honor than to allow yourself to be a stooge...P_Dawg_Jalapeno said:The guy could've wiped the floor with me.
At least you would have made a stand, even if it mean't you got your arse kicked.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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pipe007 said:
I am NOT!
lol well my 1 month date did this to me last saturday, we went clubbing, she was into me, until the taller better guy came along, and he bumped into her by accident, and they started talking, then flirting,,,,, in front of me
and she was giving me her back!! while doing it... lol, when the guy was about to walk away, she grabbed his arm, and told him "why are you leaving"? I was in shock.... 20 minutes before that she was all over me kissing me....
and I couldnt walk away because she picked me up in her car... so I had to swallow the whole thing....I never let them get away from my sight, so Im sure she didnt get a number though lol, but we never spoke again after that...
next!
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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So, I'd have gotten beat up, probably assult charges, and that **** would've still left with ol' Goliath of Gath. Yay. I seriously hope she caught an STD from him... and maybe got her pregnant too. That'd make me feel better.CHICAGO27 said:
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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In front of my face...pipe007 said:
Look, not all of my posts have been entirely serious, but some of them have, and this is."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Like the others said though, you must maintain total radio silence.
Mark my words, she will use texting or possibly a phone message (probably several) to try to guilt trip you into contacting her. She'll try to mess with your emotions and make you feel like the bad guy who "misunderstood" or "overreacted.". Please be strong and don't fall for it. She just wants to know that you aren't mad at her to relieve her own guilt or alternatively to blame the victim and deflect the guilt onto you. Scr&w that. 100 percent radio silence is critical.
If you have any belongings of hers, maybe return them, but that's it. She's done. Like Backbreaker said use this to light a fire to improve yourself like never before.
If her contacting you becomes a nuisance, change your cell number. There might be a small fee, but it will be the best say $40 you ever spent. Give the new number only to family and close friends (not in her social circle.)
Iceberg
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pipe007 said:
Yes, he's a troll.
And worst of all, he's the kind of troll who has time to think up and write these stories on an internet message board just to play games with strangers.
And then the time to come back and respond to the thread.
And then the time to return to the message board after it's already been established that he's a troll.
If anyone needs some DJ Bible advice it's this guy. Internet trolling for a hobby is not a sign of success with women....or anything else really.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Kailex
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Said to say a few fall for it though, and with good advice. Hopefully others read the advice. Something like this COULD actually happen, but I'm 100% sure that with this guy, it didn't.
This is why I usually check a poster's history before I take the time to write out a response.
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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Just the "hey" and "hows your morning going?" messages. This sucks. I feel lonesome as hell right now. There's no way I'm going to work on Monday... I need to get some pot too.pipe007 said:
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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And yeah, it was last night.pipe007 said:
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Lucifero
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That tall pilot guy was awesome...the op? not so much.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.