“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
My LTR of 1.5 years left the bar with another guy...
- Thread starter P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
cordoncordon
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He's trying to be an extreme example of an AFC.
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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The guy could've wiped the floor with me.CHICAGO27 said:
Badmannaz
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pipe007 said:
idk if you know for sure this is fake then thats just pathetic to make up a story like this...but truth be told i was thinking this **** was unbelievable when i was reading it.. but if it is true...i wuldnt be suprised....
Sometimes it's better to show honor than to allow yourself to be a stooge...P_Dawg_Jalapeno said:The guy could've wiped the floor with me.
At least you would have made a stand, even if it mean't you got your arse kicked.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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pipe007 said:
I am NOT!
lol well my 1 month date did this to me last saturday, we went clubbing, she was into me, until the taller better guy came along, and he bumped into her by accident, and they started talking, then flirting,,,,, in front of me
and she was giving me her back!! while doing it... lol, when the guy was about to walk away, she grabbed his arm, and told him "why are you leaving"? I was in shock.... 20 minutes before that she was all over me kissing me....
and I couldnt walk away because she picked me up in her car... so I had to swallow the whole thing....I never let them get away from my sight, so Im sure she didnt get a number though lol, but we never spoke again after that...
next!
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So, I'd have gotten beat up, probably assult charges, and that **** would've still left with ol' Goliath of Gath. Yay. I seriously hope she caught an STD from him... and maybe got her pregnant too. That'd make me feel better.CHICAGO27 said:
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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In front of my face...pipe007 said:
Look, not all of my posts have been entirely serious, but some of them have, and this is."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Like the others said though, you must maintain total radio silence.
Mark my words, she will use texting or possibly a phone message (probably several) to try to guilt trip you into contacting her. She'll try to mess with your emotions and make you feel like the bad guy who "misunderstood" or "overreacted.". Please be strong and don't fall for it. She just wants to know that you aren't mad at her to relieve her own guilt or alternatively to blame the victim and deflect the guilt onto you. Scr&w that. 100 percent radio silence is critical.
If you have any belongings of hers, maybe return them, but that's it. She's done. Like Backbreaker said use this to light a fire to improve yourself like never before.
If her contacting you becomes a nuisance, change your cell number. There might be a small fee, but it will be the best say $40 you ever spent. Give the new number only to family and close friends (not in her social circle.)
Iceberg
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pipe007 said:
Yes, he's a troll.
And worst of all, he's the kind of troll who has time to think up and write these stories on an internet message board just to play games with strangers.
And then the time to come back and respond to the thread.
And then the time to return to the message board after it's already been established that he's a troll.
If anyone needs some DJ Bible advice it's this guy. Internet trolling for a hobby is not a sign of success with women....or anything else really.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kailex
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Said to say a few fall for it though, and with good advice. Hopefully others read the advice. Something like this COULD actually happen, but I'm 100% sure that with this guy, it didn't.
This is why I usually check a poster's history before I take the time to write out a response.
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Just the "hey" and "hows your morning going?" messages. This sucks. I feel lonesome as hell right now. There's no way I'm going to work on Monday... I need to get some pot too.pipe007 said:
P_Dawg_Jalapeno
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And yeah, it was last night.pipe007 said:
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Lucifero
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That tall pilot guy was awesome...the op? not so much.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.