"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My lifting journal.

nabster

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Bench (100 lbs): 6,6,5.
Bicep (30 lbs): R- 8,6,7
L- 10,9,7
Abs: 1),2),3),4),5),6),7),8),9) =25
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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shaunuk

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hey, do you have a workout routine sorted out? if so post it up if you want for suggestions..

if you haven't got a routine yet, check The Vault in this forum mate. Good luck :)
 

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Tappa the marnin to yah :D

What are yours stats + goals?

What does your workout consist of?
 

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This journal is ace. Most people starting up a journal fill them with fluff about their lives, their goals and crap. You just say "my lifting journal" and get right into action. :up:

Would be kinda good if you posted routine and diet so people can get a fair understanding of how you have planned to lift.
 

yungahdubz

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Lifeforce said:
This journal is ace. Most people starting up a journal fill them with fluff about their lives, their goals and crap. You just say "my lifting journal" and get right into action. :up:

Would be kinda good if you posted routine and diet so people can get a fair understanding of how you have planned to lift.
How is posting your goals considered crap?

He may be trying to bulk on 2000cals a day doing hours of cardio and trying to increase strength by doing lots of isolation exercises.

If we don't know his goals then the people on here cant help him that much
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lifeforce

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yungahdubz said:
How is posting your goals considered crap?

He may be trying to bulk on 2000cals a day doing hours of cardio and trying to increase strength by doing lots of isolation exercises.

If we don't know his goals then the people on here cant help him that much
Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym. :) Goals are important, so is routine and diet. In the beginning you need to get consistency for going to gym and form on exercises down anyways. So plenty of time to learn about goals and routines.
 

yungahdubz

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Lifeforce said:
Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym. :) Goals are important, so is routine and diet. In the beginning you need to get consistency for going to gym and form on exercises down anyways. So plenty of time to learn about goals and routines.
Ahh, fair do's :)
 
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