nabster
Don Juan
27/8/08
Bench (100 lbs): 6,6,5.
Bicep (30 lbs): R- 8,6,7
L- 10,9,7
Abs: 1),2),3),4),5),6),7),8),9) =25
Bench (100 lbs): 6,6,5.
Bicep (30 lbs): R- 8,6,7
L- 10,9,7
Abs: 1),2),3),4),5),6),7),8),9) =25
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How is posting your goals considered crap?Lifeforce said:This journal is ace. Most people starting up a journal fill them with fluff about their lives, their goals and crap. You just say "my lifting journal" and get right into action.
Would be kinda good if you posted routine and diet so people can get a fair understanding of how you have planned to lift.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym.yungahdubz said:How is posting your goals considered crap?
He may be trying to bulk on 2000cals a day doing hours of cardio and trying to increase strength by doing lots of isolation exercises.
If we don't know his goals then the people on here cant help him that much
Ahh, fair do'sLifeforce said:Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym.Goals are important, so is routine and diet. In the beginning you need to get consistency for going to gym and form on exercises down anyways. So plenty of time to learn about goals and routines.