nabster
Don Juan
27/8/08
Bench (100 lbs): 6,6,5.
Bicep (30 lbs): R- 8,6,7
L- 10,9,7
Abs: 1),2),3),4),5),6),7),8),9) =25
Bench (100 lbs): 6,6,5.
Bicep (30 lbs): R- 8,6,7
L- 10,9,7
Abs: 1),2),3),4),5),6),7),8),9) =25
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How is posting your goals considered crap?Lifeforce said:This journal is ace. Most people starting up a journal fill them with fluff about their lives, their goals and crap. You just say "my lifting journal" and get right into action.
Would be kinda good if you posted routine and diet so people can get a fair understanding of how you have planned to lift.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym.yungahdubz said:How is posting your goals considered crap?
He may be trying to bulk on 2000cals a day doing hours of cardio and trying to increase strength by doing lots of isolation exercises.
If we don't know his goals then the people on here cant help him that much
Ahh, fair do'sLifeforce said:Just thought it was a breath of fresh air thats all to go straight into the action, wanted to give him a slap in the back for getting to the gym.Goals are important, so is routine and diet. In the beginning you need to get consistency for going to gym and form on exercises down anyways. So plenty of time to learn about goals and routines.