Yoko Kurama
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I asked her why and she says "I don't know"
What are all possible reasons?
What are all possible reasons?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
she doesn't feel comfortable with you. You might as well castrate yourself.Yoko Kurama said:I asked her why and she says "I don't know"
What are all possible reasons?
maybe he rammed his penis too deep in her throat?Yoko Kurama said:Your a ****.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
maybe you should get a girlfriend that doesn't thik you have a small, stinky penis.Yoko Kurama said:Maybe you should stop licking your moms harry teat.
Yoko Kurama said:I asked her why and she says "I don't know"
What are all possible reasons?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
69 is the number after 68...amoka said:Is it just me who don't know what 69 is? Sex position?
It's bad when a girl starts talking to you about the sex she had with her ex.DonGorgon said:she still has special feeling for him.. and you dont measure up.. you need to spin some plates..
I believe it was an old wooden ship used during the Civil War era.amoka said:Is it just me who don't know what 69 is? Sex position?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You mean she broke IT off??????Gustav Yavo said:She just not comfortable enough with you, even though its entirely possible she had a bad experience at one point, she'd be willing to give you a chance if she really thought something like in the past couldn't happen with you.
I had this chick who had a bad experience with her previous guy, he forced her head down to give him head, so she broke it off and swore off giving head. I knew i had some work to do so i took it slow, eased down on the pressure and got her worked up then went down on her to show her that i can be gentle with her, its got the bad taste of the previous guy out of her mouth and a week or two later she gave me head.
Its all about comfort, ease her into it, and don't pressure her too much or she'll close up because you'll only reinforce her decision.
Good luck
Over-rated?pLaYtHiNg said:Seriously, get over it. 69 is over-rated anyways. It probably turns her off that you're preoccupied with it. Like it's some sort of sick fetish or something.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
that or perhaps she can't multitask and do two things at once.pLaYtHiNg said:Seriously, get over it. 69 is over-rated anyways. It probably turns her off that you're preoccupied with it. Like it's some sort of sick fetish or something.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.