Yoko Kurama
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I asked her why and she says "I don't know"
What are all possible reasons?
What are all possible reasons?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My girlfriend 69ed with her ex, but won't 69 with me?!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
nightcrawler
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she doesn't feel comfortable with you. You might as well castrate yourself.Yoko Kurama said:
Yoko Kurama
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Your a ****.
nightcrawler
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maybe he rammed his penis too deep in her throat?Yoko Kurama said:
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Maybe you should stop licking your moms harry teat.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nightcrawler
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maybe you should get a girlfriend that doesn't thik you have a small, stinky penis.Yoko Kurama said:
DonGorgon
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Yoko Kurama said:
she still has special feeling for him.. and you dont measure up.. you need to spin some plates..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonGorgon
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69 is the number after 68...amoka said:
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She just not comfortable enough with you, even though its entirely possible she had a bad experience at one point, she'd be willing to give you a chance if she really thought something like in the past couldn't happen with you.
I had this chick who had a bad experience with her previous guy, he forced her head down to give him head, so she broke it off and swore off giving head. I knew i had some work to do so i took it slow, eased down on the pressure and got her worked up then went down on her to show her that i can be gentle with her, its got the bad taste of the previous guy out of her mouth and a week or two later she gave me head.
Its all about comfort, ease her into it, and don't pressure her too much or she'll close up because you'll only reinforce her decision.
Good luck
I had this chick who had a bad experience with her previous guy, he forced her head down to give him head, so she broke it off and swore off giving head. I knew i had some work to do so i took it slow, eased down on the pressure and got her worked up then went down on her to show her that i can be gentle with her, its got the bad taste of the previous guy out of her mouth and a week or two later she gave me head.
Its all about comfort, ease her into it, and don't pressure her too much or she'll close up because you'll only reinforce her decision.
Good luck
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maybe you smell.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DonGorgon
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lol..
Seriously, get over it. 69 is over-rated anyways. It probably turns her off that you're preoccupied with it. Like it's some sort of sick fetish or something.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
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Over-rated?pLaYtHiNg said:
No way!
Pretty much the best position ever.
penkitten
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that or perhaps she can't multitask and do two things at once.pLaYtHiNg said:
i know it is hard for you to believe, but some folks can not give pleasure to someone while they are receiving it at the same time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.