Yoko Kurama
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I asked her why and she says "I don't know"
What are all possible reasons?
What are all possible reasons?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My girlfriend 69ed with her ex, but won't 69 with me?!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
nightcrawler
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she doesn't feel comfortable with you. You might as well castrate yourself.Yoko Kurama said:
Yoko Kurama
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Your a ****.
nightcrawler
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maybe he rammed his penis too deep in her throat?Yoko Kurama said:
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Maybe you should stop licking your moms harry teat.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
nightcrawler
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maybe you should get a girlfriend that doesn't thik you have a small, stinky penis.Yoko Kurama said:
DonGorgon
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Yoko Kurama said:
she still has special feeling for him.. and you dont measure up.. you need to spin some plates..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DonGorgon
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69 is the number after 68...amoka said:
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She just not comfortable enough with you, even though its entirely possible she had a bad experience at one point, she'd be willing to give you a chance if she really thought something like in the past couldn't happen with you.
I had this chick who had a bad experience with her previous guy, he forced her head down to give him head, so she broke it off and swore off giving head. I knew i had some work to do so i took it slow, eased down on the pressure and got her worked up then went down on her to show her that i can be gentle with her, its got the bad taste of the previous guy out of her mouth and a week or two later she gave me head.
Its all about comfort, ease her into it, and don't pressure her too much or she'll close up because you'll only reinforce her decision.
Good luck
I had this chick who had a bad experience with her previous guy, he forced her head down to give him head, so she broke it off and swore off giving head. I knew i had some work to do so i took it slow, eased down on the pressure and got her worked up then went down on her to show her that i can be gentle with her, its got the bad taste of the previous guy out of her mouth and a week or two later she gave me head.
Its all about comfort, ease her into it, and don't pressure her too much or she'll close up because you'll only reinforce her decision.
Good luck
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maybe you smell.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonGorgon
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lol..
Seriously, get over it. 69 is over-rated anyways. It probably turns her off that you're preoccupied with it. Like it's some sort of sick fetish or something.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
Concentrate on finding out what she likes and what's enjoyable before she loses interest.
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Over-rated?pLaYtHiNg said:
No way!
Pretty much the best position ever.
penkitten
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that or perhaps she can't multitask and do two things at once.pLaYtHiNg said:
i know it is hard for you to believe, but some folks can not give pleasure to someone while they are receiving it at the same time.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.