"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*** My Dead Lift ***

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As some of you know ive changed my work out routine.

Ive added Dead Lifts And Squats Into It.

Anyways yesterday was the first day of me doing a dead lift.

Today my WHOLE BACK SIDE IS SORE...haha...

is that good. I like the feel of soreness but im just wondering if i did my deadlift right.

I know my lower back is sore but so is my butt, behind my thighs, and my upper back and shoulders.


What r ur guyz's thoughts, is this normal?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahhh..you gotta love deads. You're feeling the exact same way I do after doing them.
 
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It's a full body exercise, it's supposed to hurt. lol.

Well done both of you. :)
 
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Charm&Style said:
As some of you know ive changed my work out routine.

Ive added Dead Lifts And Squats Into It.
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The results will NOT disappoint...

As for the soreness, embrace it, consume protein in quantities that most folks would deem excessive, get your rest & hydration, and if you keep up with all that, future workouts should result in much less (if any) soreness.
 
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Im new to the full body workouts but after my experience with lifts i love em

Besides Deadlifts & Squats What other workouts are good.


(Again my goal is to have lean mass, and get cut)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Charm&Style said:
Im new to the full body workouts but after my experience with lifts i love em

Besides Deadlifts & Squats What other workouts are good.


(Again my goal is to have lean mass, and get cut)
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bench variations, military presses or db presses, good mornings, pull/chinups, skullcrushers, barbell curls, hammer curls, rows of any sort..
 
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also (assisted or weighted) dips & weighted situps
 
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Warboss Alex said:
bench variations, military presses or db presses, good mornings, pull/chinups, skullcrushers, barbell curls, hammer curls, rows of any sort..
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Tanx again war for the help...


btw do you know of a site that'll demonstrate how these workouts are done??



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Tanx again war for the help...


btw do you know of a site that'll demonstrate how these workouts are done??



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exrx.net has many good videos, some are a bit off (e.g. the dip video is far too low) but mostly they're sound. :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha another question...

k, my pecks are pretty big and and shaped, BUT under my tit (boob i guess)
--hope you know wat part im talking about -- is a little bit flabby.

What other workout besides incline bench is good for stiffen that part up??


tanx


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