Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yep.Actually, we had a discussion about this in a behavioral management class, and according to my teacher, incest is not only a universal taboo, but it's arguably the ONLY universal taboo. So your reference that it's just "American culture" is inaccurate, it's actually the entire world...and not just that, it's possibly the only thing the world agrees on being bad, probably because it's counter-productive to evolution.
So, besides the fact that you will become an outcast of society, and likely disgusted by your own family, it's all good. Oh, and if you actually do become an item, you'll have deformed children. If you go for it and she shoots you down, you only lose the respect of your entire family, so hopefully she does say no.
No...I see nothing wrong with this scenario.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
me too.YoungSir4sho said:Real talk... I LMAO when u said when ur family was gettin ready to hold hands n she went runnin to hold ur hand. Den u said... i think dats IOI... LMAOOOOOO
Understandable...lol.YoungSir4sho said:Real talk... I LMAO when u said when ur family was gettin ready to hold hands n she went runnin to hold ur hand. Den u said... i think dats IOI... LMAOOOOOO
Let's just stay away from Roofies, ok?SamePendo said:Right.
If you want me to teach you how to lay her you tell me.
And you can change lay with "make love to her" or whatever you please, I can show you how. PM if you want to keep it secret.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
you're a pretty sick guy if you really want to get with one of your family members. i dont care what kind of excuse you have, i know its ok in some societies, but this is not one of them. you should take a good look at yourself and maybe seek some kind of couseling cuz you really need it. its not normal for one to fall for their cousins... its just a line we instinctively do not cross, and for a person to do so, there must be some kind of psychological dysfunction.ReZin said:Yeah so I have thought about it some more and honestly I have no idea what I was thinking, it is pretty ****ing gross haha. Thanks for slapping some sense into me everyone.