"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My Cousin...
- Thread starter ReZin
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Plus she is your freaking cousin. Don't discount my advice just because I disagree with your view on incest. Just because you are happy fcking a relative doesn't mean she is! Don't take things like that as an IOI, it's just that she is confortable with you because you are FAMLY. It's an IOI in the same line of 'hey your my cousin I like you as a cousin' not 'let's fck'. Reguadless of whether or not incest is right (it's not) you don't have a chance because she probably doesn't think it is, and she has a god damn boyfriend. She is a girl, she really cares what people think about her, there is no way she is going to get with her cousin out of fear of what people might think. Oh and she has a boyfriend, did I mention that?
Yep.
Oh and if you are a troll, at least you are pretty amusing
Bonafide
Senior Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Michele l'Arcangelo
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me too.YoungSir4sho said:
Understandable...lol.YoungSir4sho said:
On a side note, I do find the psychological aspect in the whole matter interesting. It is interesting to me how sometimes the male innate desire for a female companion that he believes he has a connection with can override something as strong as societal influence and basic logic. Another example of this besides the cousin thing (which you find all over, check out cousincouples.com if you want another example of this) is oneitis.
Humans are very intriguing things.
Let's just stay away from Roofies, ok?SamePendo said:
Seriously though, look at it this way. I'll assume you have a sibling of some sort. Say, for example, someday you have a daughter. Your sibling has a son. At some point, you find out your nephew is banging your daughter. Would you not go fvcking ape****?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
you're a pretty sick guy if you really want to get with one of your family members. i dont care what kind of excuse you have, i know its ok in some societies, but this is not one of them. you should take a good look at yourself and maybe seek some kind of couseling cuz you really need it. its not normal for one to fall for their cousins... its just a line we instinctively do not cross, and for a person to do so, there must be some kind of psychological dysfunction.ReZin said:
When you're a teenager, your female cousins are there, they're inclined to be friendly, they trust you, and you spend alot of time in close quarters with them. It's not all that uncommon. When I was about 13-16 one of the easiest occasions to hook up was at big family gatherings with distant 'cousins' who weren't actually related to me by blood.
Just get out more, man. Getting over your cousin shouldn't be that different from getting over any other girl.