"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yes get a hotel. Since your time is limited you'll want to shoot for a 2nd date lay. I know you're not in it for that, but it builds intimacy especially if you give her multiple orgasms.
she's normal amazing armenian woman. What do you mean?
no results yet from the surgery. I'm at 4.5 month mark. I was told next 3 months will be huge difference
sazc
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"This is going to go well" say it over and over, esp when you feel/think negatively.
Just take deep breaths and go with the flow. Tell her you will be in town on "pick a weekend" to visit family and would like to take her to dinner, what does she think?
Then shut the fvck up and let her say "sure!" Then book tickets too get there, a place to stay, and a GREAT dinner for both of you.
"This is going to go well"
Don't over think it, just roll
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
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Strike while the irons . Send for her, "how would you like to come to XYZ next weekend?" . get her on your turf in familiar spots.
Dont overtalk. Sex needs to happen.
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If you can pull this off, asking her to come to you, flying her down, getting her a hotel room, romantic.
If you get resistance in the "my sex can't be bought" department, then tell her, no strings attached, I just want to get to know you.
Wine her, dine her, tittilate her and leave her wanting.
Can you pull it off?
mrgoodstuff
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If your convo is at that point, do that tonight. You make the money to do these type of things.
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Well, he's got a good opportunity here to meet the type of girl that he likes. So he should at least check her out.
Just as long as he doesn't come back saying "I think one of her ears is a little lower than the other one, so I guess she's not in my league".
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"this is so cool to live in America. My dream is to take the car and go across whole america. I want to go to San Diego. Very excited about US"
...I suppose that answers the question whether she would move here
I think she wants to move to US regardless of right guy or not
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
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He can split the costs then or fly to her. I felt the meeting is better on his turf.
And i thought he already met her in person in NYC?
Also him flying her out is better than what he has been doing with females .
This one is so keen on latching a guy to get to the states sex will happen.
mrgoodstuff
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Its just pictures. Alot of females know how to dress and pose for pics.
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she's a 9-10/10 IMO
her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
devilkingx2
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This. A high 7 in real life is a 9.5 in a pic
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.