“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto

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<respond to last text> hey I’ll be in town the weekend of Dec __, are you up to meeting for a drink?

For that, I request pics of the new FUE hair you’re sporting. Post in this thread.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"Hey I'm visiting my uncle in Toronto for Christmas. How about we meet up at (coffee place, bar, or wherever)."

Yes get a hotel. Since your time is limited you'll want to shoot for a 2nd date lay. I know you're not in it for that, but it builds intimacy especially if you give her multiple orgasms.
 

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I don't know there Dave, she will probably be just a normal woman and you know you deserve way better than normal being the 10+ guy you claim to be. Best just tell her now that your gay and save her the trouble of finding this out if she ever meets you. Problem solved!
she's normal amazing armenian woman. What do you mean?
 

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<respond to last text> hey I’ll be in town the weekend of Dec __, are you up to meeting for a drink?

For that, I request pics of the new FUE hair you’re sporting. Post in this thread.
no results yet from the surgery. I'm at 4.5 month mark. I was told next 3 months will be huge difference
 

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Projection @bigdave17 affirmations

"This is going to go well" say it over and over, esp when you feel/think negatively.

Just take deep breaths and go with the flow. Tell her you will be in town on "pick a weekend" to visit family and would like to take her to dinner, what does she think?

Then shut the fvck up and let her say "sure!" Then book tickets too get there, a place to stay, and a GREAT dinner for both of you.

"This is going to go well"

Don't over think it, just roll
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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alright you fukkers I need some advice

I've been texting her for 3 days and we're getting along great. What's my next step here?

My uncle lives in Toronto. Do I go visit him for Xmas and then ask if she wants to meet up? Do I get a hotel early next month in Canada and ask if she wants to meet up?
Strike while the irons . Send for her, "how would you like to come to XYZ next weekend?" . get her on your turf in familiar spots.

Dont overtalk. Sex needs to happen.
 

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Strike while the irons . Send for her, "how would you like to come to XYZ next weekend?" . get her on your turf in familiar spots.

Dont overtalk. Sex needs to happen.
If you can pull this off, asking her to come to you, flying her down, getting her a hotel room, romantic.

If you get resistance in the "my sex can't be bought" department, then tell her, no strings attached, I just want to get to know you.

Wine her, dine her, tittilate her and leave her wanting.

Can you pull it off?
 

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Strike while the irons . Send for her, "how would you like to come to XYZ next weekend?" . get her on your turf in familiar spots.

Dont overtalk. Sex needs to happen.
If your convo is at that point, do that tonight. You make the money to do these type of things.
 

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Big dave remember this SIMPLE rule of the universe. "Money attracts money" "Puzzy attract puzzy" remember that.
 

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What are the odds that when i come back here next, there will be at least one (probably several) @bigdave17 threads at the top of the list saying the exact same thing over and over?

I just don't think that's acceptable, and one should be urged to push on rather than be made excuses for. That's just my opinion.
Well, he's got a good opportunity here to meet the type of girl that he likes. So he should at least check her out.
Just as long as he doesn't come back saying "I think one of her ears is a little lower than the other one, so I guess she's not in my league".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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today she texted me

"this is so cool to live in America. My dream is to take the car and go across whole america. I want to go to San Diego. Very excited about US"


...I suppose that answers the question whether she would move here
 

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^ exactly, women will move continents if they find the right guy. BTW, that's your opening to invite her to visit you in the US, don't let it go to waste. Ask her when she can come. However, I don't know about paying for her tickets etc who you haven't even met. Too much pedestalizing IMHO that can kill attraction. Invite her, if she says no, I'd say say what @guru1000 suggested.
 

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^ exactly, women will move continents if they find the right guy. BTW, that's your opening to invite her to visit you in the US, don't let it go to waste. Ask her when she can come. However, I don't know about paying for her tickets etc who you haven't even met. Too much pedestalizing IMHO that can kill attraction. Invite her, if she says no, I'd say say what @guru1000 suggested.
I think she wants to move to US regardless of right guy or not :D
 

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Dave if she says no to you I can always show her around here, in San Diego and send you pics LOL
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^ exactly, women will move continents if they find the right guy. BTW, that's your opening to invite her to visit you in the US, don't let it go to waste. Ask her when she can come. However, I don't know about paying for her tickets etc who you haven't even met. Too much pedestalizing IMHO that can kill attraction. Invite her, if she says no, I'd say say what @guru1000 suggested.
He can split the costs then or fly to her. I felt the meeting is better on his turf.

And i thought he already met her in person in NYC?

Also him flying her out is better than what he has been doing with females .

This one is so keen on latching a guy to get to the states sex will happen.
 
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Its just pictures. Alot of females know how to dress and pose for pics.
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she's a 9-10/10 IMO

her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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