"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I have a movie date this weekend and have made out my plans on making on my moves, just curious as to what strategies some of you have!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Movie Date?

Very good idea. You'll see her face once before the movie and once after.
 

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i know its not the ideal date, but with our schedules this is what we have to work with
 

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i know its not the ideal date, but with our schedules this is what we have to work with
Abort those plans immediately. If her time is limited then why are you going to waste two hours staring at a movie screen? Take her to a lounge or someplace you two can talk and put your moves on her there. movies are horrible first dates.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gotta kino since you can do little else.

Hold her hand and massage the top of it with your fingertips. That works well.

Hand on thigh is more risqué but can be done if she's responding well to the first one. You can start more innocently by rubbing by her knee. Then go north slowly.

The idea is to get her really hot, especially knowing she can't do much with you in the theater.

A heavy makeout usually follows once you get to the car after.
 

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Overall, I like movies. You get to tease her with kino without worrying about saying something stupid to F things up. It's physical game without some club guys trying to grind her a$s haha.

I'm assuming you mean the cinema/theater.

A movie date at your place is even better. The game plan is slightly different:

1. Massage her hand like above.
2. Skip the thigh stuff.
3. Brush her hair aside with fingertips.
4. Kiss
5. Makeout as long as possible (because you are already isolated).
6. At the same time, run hands down her sides and brush her boobs "accidentally" every so often.

Ok I'm not gonna draw you a diagram lol. Good luck man.
 

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J Roc said:
Abort those plans immediately. If her time is limited then why are you going to waste two hours staring at a movie screen? Take her to a lounge or someplace you two can talk and put your moves on her there. movies are horrible first dates.

^^Agreed! You should be doing anything BUT a movie of you only have a few hrs. to spare. And it'll be cheaper.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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While the movie date isn't the most original and/or exciting thing in the world, there IS success to be had in doing it. The key is not to have it be the ONLY thing you do the whole night.

For example: if the theater in question is either attached to or near a mall, go there first and walk around, get something from the food court, go into different stores, etc. and talk. Then, by the time you get to the movie, she feels like she knows you a bit more - at least enough to allow you to put your arm around her and/or do kino while the movie is playing.

I've had a few first dates at the movies, and most of them resulted in me getting some kind of play. Just make sure you can come up with stuff to talk about before and after the movie and you should be fine. But definitely add something else to the night's activity list if you can.
 

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Movie dates kill attraction.
I completely disagree. Watching a good movie together gives you a shared experience, which is a plus. But it's not the best idea for a first date, or for someone you don't know well, because you can't really talk.

That said, I usually only go to movies if I want to see the movie. It seems like every guy here goes to the movies with the goal to make out. I don't know why you have to go to the movies to make out, I'd rather do that at home for free. Why would you pay money for a movie and not even watch it? Especially if you have 3D glasses on, lol. That said, there are plenty of kino opportunities.
 

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Not the best idea for the 1st date, excellent idea for 2nd or 3rd date. A dark movie theater is a great environment to feel her up.
 

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Mike32ct said:
If she sits too far away from you on the couch, use this line...

"You can move over (signal to move next to you). I'm not in to 'long distance relationships' lol"
HA! I'm putting this one in the bank.

I've heard of guys who just kino escalate and make out the whole time at a movie. I don't think I'd ever do that at a theater, and definitely not on a first date with someone I just met. It's different if it's someone in a social circle who you already know though...
 

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sageproduct said:
I've heard of guys who just kino escalate and make out the whole time at a movie. I don't think I'd ever do that at a theater, and definitely not on a first date with someone I just met. It's different if it's someone in a social circle who you already know though...
I've only rarely seen couples making out in theaters. Maybe it's because I prefer to go to the matinees - they're cheaper and are less crowded.

But to read the forum here, I don't think any of the posters here have ever watched a movie in a theater. The only reason they go there is to make out or have sex.

Well, Eff that. If I'm paying for a ticket, I'm watching the movie. Plus I like the popcorn. I have a house to make out in. Similarly, I remember once my teen years were done, I swore I would never have sex in a car again lol. Too frigging uncomfortable.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Only good movie date is one at your apartment or house...specifically your bedroom...
 

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Meh, movies can quickly build sexual tension. I definitely wouldn't consider it cancel-worthy.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134945

Read up on muscleman's journal for examples.

How old are you and her?

It's not what I woul do but I don't think it's a sexual death sentence either. Most girls don't like going to a movie on the first couple dates but all chicks and relationships amongst people are different. Bringing a girl to a movie isn't as unacceptable an idea as some say, it's just not ideal
 

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Move it to YOUR place and coincidentally have "Boogie Nights" in the DVD player...boomchickiwowow.
 

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I took a girl to a movie for first date once, it didn't matter for shyt b/c she was already into me so we made out in her car afterwards.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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