"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have anyone else noticed that more and more dudes are having unprotected sex these days.. Do they like to live on the edge... The stupid edge...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm one of those foolish men who thinks that bedding young women and screening would keep me insulated.

Yes it's foolish and something I don't recommend men do.

So far I've never contracted anything but if any man wishes to go down this road then it's imperative to screen out night clubbers and those using OLD apps.
 

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You won’t catch me catching the clap for being stupid! Wrap it up and then some!
 

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First of all, Most, like 99.09% of HIV cases come from homosexual buttsex. I do not believe that Charlie Sheen got it from intercourse with a female. Second, I don't necessarily penetrate all the way just enter a bit here and there, before putting on a condom. 3rd, girls who use heroin or meth are potential HIV carriers because needles. My doctor said he's never diagnosed an HIV case and he's been around since the 70s. He said that it's almost ALWAYS a drug-user. He scoffed at my paranoia back a couple of years ago and his office ladies must have wondered what was so wrong with me that I was imagining things when it was simply bad eating habits, sleeping habits, but the internet "diagnosis" always inflict paranoia when you start reading symptoms, and start checking your body all over - fingernails, eyes, privates. You start researching every Rare disease, ones you'd never heard of. I learned a lot about liver disease and I don't drink.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wouldn't know, I don't go with dudes.

but everything is possible there is people who think vacines are bad and give autism so, I say let then do it, if they die doing so better for us, less idiots on the gene pool
 

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I remember reading somewhere that even If you fuk with a HIV positive person, you have 1 chance apon 1000 to be affected
 

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Plus, there's the most expensive STD of all:

Hahaha

Believe it or not, I've bedded more women then I care to admit and have most if not all of them end up telling me they want my baby at some point.

It gets worse, many don't mind being abandoned as long as they have my child.

It's pure mindfvck each time I hear it.

Any of you guys experienced the same?
 

stovepipe

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What about women? It takes two to tango! Being divorce rates are through the roof and will continue to rise, on top of all the single moms this is nothing new or surprising. STD's will be so common in years to come. No one really gives a chit about anything anymore.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Most of my friends rarely if ever used condoms and they now have multiple kids and some have families. Heterosexual HIV is rare to catch. Most people get HIV from needles and gay sex, but won't admit it. They'll lie to protect themselves and their image
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hahaha

Believe it or not, I've bedded more women then I care to admit and have most if not all of them end up telling me they want my baby at some point.

It gets worse, many don't mind being abandoned as long as they have my child.

It's pure mindfvck each time I hear it.

Any of you guys experienced the same?
of course they don't, they can child support you ass without much care, most woman just want a easy life
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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