“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Money and a real career > Game, every single time

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Money alone does not get you laid.

It's having money AND one of the following:

1. good looks
2. good personality

And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.

If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
 

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Money can be faked for a little while. Personality can too.

It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
 

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gbmack said:
Money alone does not get you laid.

It's having money AND one of the following:

1. good looks
2. good personality

And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.

If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
Great post, looks trumps personality and money every time. Keep gettin yourself to look good. Guys age very well.
 

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lol what?

OP: All of that stuff is in your head.

It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.

I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.

I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).

Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.

Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no? ;)

JK
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think woman are genetically wired to be attracted to the man with great personality and un wielding confidence because those are the tools a man uses to become rich and powerful. A true leader is someone that can convince and influence other people. A lot of the tools used in "game" can also be applied in this area. So when you think about it, it all boils down to the man's ability to have power or get it in the future (ie money).
 

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zekko said:
Why wouldn't improving yourself as a man include improving your career? Which would generally translate into more money, unless you're going for a fulfillment type of job where you just love what you do or are wanting to help people, etc.
eh, I didn't mean careers are not important at all. I meant careers as a means of picking up chicks.

"Oh hey, I'm a doctor, wanna fvck?"

The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
 

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2crudedudes said:
The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!

a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal

ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
 

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kingsam said:
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!

a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal

ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
Most women (especially the hottest ones) are superficial and sometimes superfiscal.

But if you took everybody who posted in this board and lined them all up and asked a random girl to pick out the richest guy, she wouldn't have any obvious clues!

Most guys use money as a way to get chicks, as money is something to offer. Most people believe that if a guy is rich, the guy becomes the chooser, not the girl. Most people believe (and Falcon25 said this on page 2) that women are biologically programmed to go for wealth and stability so that the offspring will have a great life!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.:crackup:
 

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teacha said:
game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.
That had me cracking up!!! And I agree!

Club game is mostly looks and money. If you're seen getting out of a Ferrari or whatever similar, you have a fighting chance. If you came to the club with girls, you have a fighting chance. If you're strikingly handsome, you have a fighting chance. These allow you to choose, not the girl.

If you don't have any of those things, game is your last option, and it better be good. Plain Janes and cougars can be attention wh0res too, especially these days.
 

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you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute

and pathetic...
 

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kingsam said:
you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute

and pathetic...
:rolleyes:
 

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There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.

anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.

1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.


the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.


he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.


that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'


man just do it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker said:
There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.

anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.

1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.


the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.


he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.


that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'


man just do it.
Once again, this is another story of RANDOM success. CONSTANT success is completely different.
 

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I agree. A guy with ambitions is better than a pua using game. Game are for betas trying to act like alphas.
 
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