kingsam
Master Don Juan
GAME > looks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Money and a real career > Game, every single time
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Money alone does not get you laid.
It's having money AND one of the following:
1. good looks
2. good personality
And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.
If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
It's having money AND one of the following:
1. good looks
2. good personality
And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.
If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
Money can be faked for a little while. Personality can too.
It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
Johnny_Kage
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lol what?
OP: All of that stuff is in your head.
It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.
I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.
I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).
Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.
Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no?
JK
OP: All of that stuff is in your head.
It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.
I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.
I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).
Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.
Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no?
JK
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hullothere
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I think woman are genetically wired to be attracted to the man with great personality and un wielding confidence because those are the tools a man uses to become rich and powerful. A true leader is someone that can convince and influence other people. A lot of the tools used in "game" can also be applied in this area. So when you think about it, it all boils down to the man's ability to have power or get it in the future (ie money).
2crudedudes
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eh, I didn't mean careers are not important at all. I meant careers as a means of picking up chicks.zekko said:
"Oh hey, I'm a doctor, wanna fvck?"
The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!2crudedudes said:
a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal
ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
nismo-4
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Most women (especially the hottest ones) are superficial and sometimes superfiscal.kingsam said:
But if you took everybody who posted in this board and lined them all up and asked a random girl to pick out the richest guy, she wouldn't have any obvious clues!
Most guys use money as a way to get chicks, as money is something to offer. Most people believe that if a guy is rich, the guy becomes the chooser, not the girl. Most people believe (and Falcon25 said this on page 2) that women are biologically programmed to go for wealth and stability so that the offspring will have a great life!
Forty0ztoFreedom
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100% perfect game > looks.
Good luck getting 100% perfect game.
Good luck getting 100% perfect game.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
teacha
Senior Don Juan
game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.:crackup:
nismo-4
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That had me cracking up!!! And I agree!teacha said:
Club game is mostly looks and money. If you're seen getting out of a Ferrari or whatever similar, you have a fighting chance. If you came to the club with girls, you have a fighting chance. If you're strikingly handsome, you have a fighting chance. These allow you to choose, not the girl.
If you don't have any of those things, game is your last option, and it better be good. Plain Janes and cougars can be attention wh0res too, especially these days.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute
and pathetic...
and pathetic...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.
anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.
1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.
the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.
he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.
that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'
man just do it.
anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.
1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.
the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.
he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.
that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'
man just do it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Speculator E
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I agree. A guy with ambitions is better than a pua using game. Game are for betas trying to act like alphas.