“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Money and a real career > Game, every single time

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Money alone does not get you laid.

It's having money AND one of the following:

1. good looks
2. good personality

And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.

If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
 

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Money can be faked for a little while. Personality can too.

It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
 

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gbmack said:
Money alone does not get you laid.

It's having money AND one of the following:

1. good looks
2. good personality

And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.

If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
Great post, looks trumps personality and money every time. Keep gettin yourself to look good. Guys age very well.
 

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lol what?

OP: All of that stuff is in your head.

It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.

I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.

I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).

Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.

Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no? ;)

JK
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I think woman are genetically wired to be attracted to the man with great personality and un wielding confidence because those are the tools a man uses to become rich and powerful. A true leader is someone that can convince and influence other people. A lot of the tools used in "game" can also be applied in this area. So when you think about it, it all boils down to the man's ability to have power or get it in the future (ie money).
 

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zekko said:
Why wouldn't improving yourself as a man include improving your career? Which would generally translate into more money, unless you're going for a fulfillment type of job where you just love what you do or are wanting to help people, etc.
eh, I didn't mean careers are not important at all. I meant careers as a means of picking up chicks.

"Oh hey, I'm a doctor, wanna fvck?"

The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
 

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2crudedudes said:
The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!

a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal

ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
 

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kingsam said:
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!

a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal

ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
Most women (especially the hottest ones) are superficial and sometimes superfiscal.

But if you took everybody who posted in this board and lined them all up and asked a random girl to pick out the richest guy, she wouldn't have any obvious clues!

Most guys use money as a way to get chicks, as money is something to offer. Most people believe that if a guy is rich, the guy becomes the chooser, not the girl. Most people believe (and Falcon25 said this on page 2) that women are biologically programmed to go for wealth and stability so that the offspring will have a great life!
 

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game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.:crackup:
 

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teacha said:
game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.
That had me cracking up!!! And I agree!

Club game is mostly looks and money. If you're seen getting out of a Ferrari or whatever similar, you have a fighting chance. If you came to the club with girls, you have a fighting chance. If you're strikingly handsome, you have a fighting chance. These allow you to choose, not the girl.

If you don't have any of those things, game is your last option, and it better be good. Plain Janes and cougars can be attention wh0res too, especially these days.
 

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you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute

and pathetic...
 

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kingsam said:
you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute

and pathetic...
:rolleyes:
 

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There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.

anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.

1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.


the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.


he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.


that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'


man just do it.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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backbreaker said:
There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.

anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.

1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.


the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.


he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.


that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'


man just do it.
Once again, this is another story of RANDOM success. CONSTANT success is completely different.
 

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I agree. A guy with ambitions is better than a pua using game. Game are for betas trying to act like alphas.
 
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