Money and a real career > Game, every single time

[goodfoot]

Money is most important. That's why all those celebrities have such great marriages and relationships.

 

[OldbutSTRONG]

Money is most important. That's why all those celebrities have such great marriages and relationships.

Celebrities are in their own league. When you have so much hot young ***** thrown at you hardly any sane male will stay faithful. And don't forget all the drugs.

 

[OldbutSTRONG]

This guy had plenty of money, and he gave the girl stability, comfort, devotion, romance, etc. What did he lack? He was boring and bad in the sack. So if you want to have an LTR or even marry a hot chick, money alone can get you the girl. But if you want her to actually love you/stay faithful to you, it's going to take far, far more.

A lot of women get bored being with one guy for the rest of their lives too. They want to explore other males even though we don't want to believe it. She still would have cheated on him if was exciting and great in the sack.

Being broke with game doesn't pay the bills. And no amount of great sex will replace being able to travel, eat out, shop friviously, and everything else that involves money.

 

[Falcon25]

Guys,


I'm not saying you can't get a girl if you are average or have modest income. I'm saying that it is harder for us to do so. Guys who have cash, who have muscles, and great looks, just can get any type of girl they want, without really trying. This is just a fact. It doesn't mean we can't. It means we just have to work harder. I want all of you to realize that MONEY AND LOOKS DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE. And just stay in school, get a good job, and you will see by the time you hit 35 how much money means to getting a model type woman with a great personality. She is not a golddigger, she is just doing what all hot women want or need to do; look for a guy who is financially secure. And for those of you who have money, I urge you to get a fuvking personality. For those of you who are not great looking or are overweight, I urge you to get in the gym. No guy can truly be that ugly, we age very well. You just have to get off the couch and get in the gym. I wish I did that in my early twenties. Though I got a lot of girls, I never realized how important maintaining your body was for a man. I would have been unstoppable. Now, I have two out of the three, I am working on the body, I have the personality, and now need MONEY. I need a very good paying job. Two out of three aint bad, but three out of three gets you models, remember that. Please, don't be like these idiots who think confidence is the key to women. Confidence is attained by success and good looks A LOT EASIER. So get to work, get motivated. Once you make money, and you are fit, and you have some personality, you will smile, you will start CHOOSING WOMEN. That is the difference between random success and CONSTANT success with women. Any shmuck can get one or two girls that are hot as their girlfriends. Any idiot can hit the jackpot once in a while. But if you are successful, fit, and sociable, you don't need to hit jackpots. You just need to show up. Don't listen to people who say looks or money has nothing to do with it. It does.

 

[escaleraroyal]

dont agree...i have 2 friends who makes 100K and they get no women...

 

[Falcon25]

dont agree...i have 2 friends who makes 100K and they get no women...

Like I said, maybe they have one of the three. 100K can get you a lot of pusvy. But not a woman who will stay with you. Like I said, you can't just be rich and expect to women to fall in love with you, maybe you should tell them to buy a fuvking personality. Read my post again.

 

[tihash]

Money (like 100k/year) does not get you laid. I know guys who make bank but have no game and are boring.

Do you think you wear a sign that says, "I make $120k a year" and girls flock to you? Give me a break.

Look at Bill Gates. Did he get his wife from money and power? Of course. He met her at the company picnic and she knew he was loaded. However, if he walked into a bar where no one knew him dressed like a dork and with that sh!tty haircut and not being able to speak for 10 seconds without sounding like a nerd and with zero confidence with women would anyone give him the time of day? No way.

Now, if he was in a $4000 suit, rolled up in his own limo or a Ferrari, and lavished that money on the sluvts (which, by the way, would involve actually approaching and talking to them), would he get laid? Maybe.

But isn't dressing to the best of your ability, approaching girls, and the like having "game"?

It's funny. Guys with money and no game say it takes game to get laid. Guys with a little game and no money say it takes money.

It's just a limiting belief.

Here is what you should think: "I am the sh!t. Girls would be fools not to get with me." And don't make up excuses like lack of money, too short, too skinny, etc. Yes, certain qualities make it easier, but that just means you need to try harder.

In short, along the same lines as Falcon's post.

 

[nismo-4]

Guys,


I'm not saying you can't get a girl if you are average or have modest income. I'm saying that it is harder for us to do so. Guys who have cash, who have muscles, and great looks, just can get any type of girl they want, without really trying. This is just a fact. It doesn't mean we can't. It means we just have to work harder. I want all of you to realize that MONEY AND LOOKS DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE. And just stay in school, get a good job, and you will see by the time you hit 35 how much money means to getting a model type woman with a great personality. She is not a golddigger, she is just doing what all hot women want or need to do; look for a guy who is financially secure. And for those of you who have money, I urge you to get a fuvking personality. For those of you who are not great looking or are overweight, I urge you to get in the gym. No guy can truly be that ugly, we age very well. You just have to get off the couch and get in the gym. I wish I did that in my early twenties. Though I got a lot of girls, I never realized how important maintaining your body was for a man. I would have been unstoppable. Now, I have two out of the three, I am working on the body, I have the personality, and now need MONEY. I need a very good paying job. Two out of three aint bad, but three out of three gets you models, remember that. Please, don't be like these idiots who think confidence is the key to women. Confidence is attained by success and good looks A LOT EASIER. So get to work, get motivated. Once you make money, and you are fit, and you have some personality, you will smile, you will start CHOOSING WOMEN. That is the difference between random success and CONSTANT success with women. Any shmuck can get one or two girls that are hot as their girlfriends. Any idiot can hit the jackpot once in a while. But if you are successful, fit, and sociable, you don't need to hit jackpots. You just need to show up. Don't listen to people who say looks or money has nothing to do with it. It does.

Falcon, even though you might erupt the wrath of Just a Shot Away, you are totally speaking the truth.

Confidence is key- Said the guy who's average and has nothing really going for him.

Yeah, hot women get ugly guys, but it's usually for one of these reasons.

1. They've been dating for a long time and he didn't always look like that.
2. He has money.
3. He's famous/ well known/ club owner.
4. He has access to drugs.

 

[DonGorgon]

What it all boils down to in this country (North America). Is the very old Scarface quote "In this country, you gotta get the money first, then when you get the money, you get the power, then when you get the power, then you get the woman." You can lie to yourself. You can memorize lines/routines/bs, but at the end of the day "Successful men" are the ones ****ing these hot model looking chicks. Believe it or not Ripley, it's the truth. Nothing else really matters. Unless you're in high school, personality will only get you so far......

Nothing really "beats" anything actually cause women keep several men on their team and they have men with different traits cause women want many different things that could never all come from one man.. if you have a woman you will at some point have to share her with a dude who does something else for her that you dont or cant.. moats of those other men are Fing her some will F her in 30 mins and some will wait a year or more...

 

[OldbutSTRONG]

Yeah, hot women get ugly guys, but it's usually for one of these reasons.

1. They've been dating for a long time and he didn't always look like that.
2. He has money.
3. He's famous/ well known/ club owner.
4. He has access to drugs.

Don't forget low self-esteem. Or possibly the female wants to be the one who is the power player of the two. She might believe the ugly guy will work twice as hard as the hot looking stud.

 

[Falcon25]

Falcon, even though you might erupt the wrath of Just a Shot Away, you are totally speaking the truth.

Confidence is key- Said the guy who's average and has nothing really going for him.

Yeah, hot women get ugly guys, but it's usually for one of these reasons.

1. They've been dating for a long time and he didn't always look like that.
2. He has money.
3. He's famous/ well known/ club owner.
4. He has access to drugs.

Thanks Nismo, you are one of few who has seen the real world. When I was an undergrad, cocaine was huge with chicks, but never as big as today. Even little innocent girls love blow. It is huge with college chicks. It was never this big in 2000 or 2001 when I was an undergrad.

 

[nismo-4]

Thanks Nismo, you are one of few who has seen the real world. When I was an undergrad, cocaine was huge with chicks, but never as big as today. Even little innocent girls love blow. It is huge with college chicks. It was never this big in 2000 or 2001 when I was an undergrad.

Even older women and moms love blow these days! Mainly strippers!

I can't be a drug dealer, but in New Orleans during my freshman year of college (2004-2005) I knew all the spots!

Some people make fake drugs and pass it off to girls to get some pu$$y. Sometimes it works! Case and point;

I was in a strip club before moving to Georgia and I made a fake 8-ball (cocaine) and some fake weed. Something I googled. Me and a friend went to a strip club and since it was so dark, we talked about exchanging the fake drugs. All four of us (the dancers and me and my friend) went to two seprate private rooms and got some mind-blowing sex! But after it was all over, me and my friend took off! Just in case the girls smoked the stuff in the club to find out it's fake. Who cares? We got what we wanted! And enjoyed it!

Oh yeah, dudes who got pimped out rides/ high end cars get women too. That's some real world sh*t.

 

[Lexington]

Overall attractiveness is a combination of looks, money/power and personality/game. It's not an either/or proposition. It's possible to have all three. Just because you have money and a successful career doesn't mean you will land quality women....they'll get with guys who have money/power AND game.

It's impossible to say that money and a career always trumps game. You have too look at all 3 pieces of the puzzle. A lot of girls would probably prefer a guy with great game and only an average career to a loaded businessmen who is fat, out of shape and has no personality.

 

[zekko]

It's impossible to say that money and a career always trumps game. You have too look at all 3 pieces of the puzzle.

Right, I was thinking about this earlier. It's the whole package.

Everybody is different. I know guys who do a LOT of the things on here that this forum advises them to: using the negs, treating women like little girls, busting on them, flirting with them, approaching everyone, etc.
And I don't see any of them being mega-successful with women because they come off as goofy, or immature, or they don't have the look, or they're going nowhere in their lives, etc.

On the other hand, I know guys who just sit quietly in the corner and girls are all over them. The guys I'm thinking about here are tall, successful, and good looking.

You can't just take one aspect of a person and decide if he's attractive or not. It's the whole package, a mix of everything together. That's why it's such a good idea to try to improve yourself in all areas.

 

[old married dude]

Two things here cracked me up.

1st $120K income isn't going to help much. It depends on whether or not you're in a high cost of living area. The wife and I together make this much & we certainly don't feel rich. I'd say you'd need an income of $300K+ to begin to get girls to flock to you like crazy.

2nd, the drug reference was kinda funny. A lot of girls here think coke is a kid's drug. If you've got the hookup with some crystal meth tho, you're in with the party/college girls.

 

[The Experience]

A guy with $$$ and a career > A guy that is broke (little $$$) and no career (or job)

Isn't this obvious? Women are attracted to success or at least ambition.

 

[2crudedudes]

Call me crazy, but I'm here to improve myself as a man rather than pad my life with material goods. Sure, a lot of women want to marry a rich guy with a good job, but I want to be the guy that women want to fvck because he's irresistible, even if he's not rich.

 

[zekko]

Call me crazy, but I'm here to improve myself as a man rather than pad my life with material goods.

Why wouldn't improving yourself as a man include improving your career? Which would generally translate into more money, unless you're going for a fulfillment type of job where you just love what you do or are wanting to help people, etc.

 

[Nexus Polaris]

What it all boils down to in this country (North America). Is the very old Scarface quote "In this country, you gotta get the money first, then when you get the money, you get the power, then when you get the power, then you get the woman." You can lie to yourself. You can memorize lines/routines/bs, but at the end of the day "Successful men" are the ones ****ing these hot model looking chicks. Believe it or not Ripley, it's the truth. Nothing else really matters. Unless you're in high school, personality will only get you so far......

The words of someone who has not yet mastered the game. Personality is the ultimate trump card. Money and career certainly help, but by themselves, they are essentially meaningless. All they mean is that a woman will commit to you on a surface level....... while she's f*cking the guy with the personality behind your back.

 

[Falcon25]

The words of someone who has not yet mastered the game. Personality is the ultimate trump card. Money and career certainly help, but by themselves, they are essentially meaningless. All they mean is that a woman will commit to you on a surface level....... while she's f*cking the guy with the personality behind your back.

If you listen to this, you will NEVER attain success. This guy missed the point completely. As do most people who don't read posts about looks/money carefully. PERSONALITY EQUALS RANDOM SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.
SUCCESS/GOOD LOOKS EQUALS CONSTANT SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

After that, it's up to you on how you wanted to be treated by a woman, how much she will cheat on you, etc. The point is this type of guy, yeah the constant one, doesn't even have to try. He just needs to show up, smile, and have a half ass personality. And if he is dashingly handsome, and filthy rich, he is fuvking a different model every day of the week. HE GETS TO CHOOSE WOMEN. Peace out.