kingsam
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GAME > looks
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Money and a real career > Game, every single time
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Money alone does not get you laid.
It's having money AND one of the following:
1. good looks
2. good personality
And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.
If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
It's having money AND one of the following:
1. good looks
2. good personality
And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.
If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
Money can be faked for a little while. Personality can too.
It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
It's self that can't, and ultimately that's what lands you the opportunity to do what you want. Marry the best woman in the world or fvck several of them. The only way to sustain that is to be the best self you can.
Johnny_Kage
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lol what?
OP: All of that stuff is in your head.
It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.
I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.
I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).
Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.
Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no?
JK
OP: All of that stuff is in your head.
It depends on what you're looking for really. If you're fun, you stay cool, and you lead (ie: good game), you'll have no problem getting hot girls.
I'm short (5'6, 5'7 on a good day) and have no money (just got out of college), but I've had sex with a lot of hot girls, some of which wanted to date me.
I am pretty good-looking (I usually get "cute"), but nothing spectacular and I'm very charismatic and outgoing (ie: good personality).
Basically, if I really want a girl, I get her. Why? Because my game is tight.
Sounds to me like someone is being held back by their limiting beliefs, no?
JK
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hullothere
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I think woman are genetically wired to be attracted to the man with great personality and un wielding confidence because those are the tools a man uses to become rich and powerful. A true leader is someone that can convince and influence other people. A lot of the tools used in "game" can also be applied in this area. So when you think about it, it all boils down to the man's ability to have power or get it in the future (ie money).
2crudedudes
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eh, I didn't mean careers are not important at all. I meant careers as a means of picking up chicks.zekko said:
"Oh hey, I'm a doctor, wanna fvck?"
The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!2crudedudes said:
a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal
ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
nismo-4
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Most women (especially the hottest ones) are superficial and sometimes superfiscal.kingsam said:
But if you took everybody who posted in this board and lined them all up and asked a random girl to pick out the richest guy, she wouldn't have any obvious clues!
Most guys use money as a way to get chicks, as money is something to offer. Most people believe that if a guy is rich, the guy becomes the chooser, not the girl. Most people believe (and Falcon25 said this on page 2) that women are biologically programmed to go for wealth and stability so that the offspring will have a great life!
Forty0ztoFreedom
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100% perfect game > looks.
Good luck getting 100% perfect game.
Good luck getting 100% perfect game.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
teacha
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game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.:crackup:
nismo-4
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That had me cracking up!!! And I agree!teacha said:
Club game is mostly looks and money. If you're seen getting out of a Ferrari or whatever similar, you have a fighting chance. If you came to the club with girls, you have a fighting chance. If you're strikingly handsome, you have a fighting chance. These allow you to choose, not the girl.
If you don't have any of those things, game is your last option, and it better be good. Plain Janes and cougars can be attention wh0res too, especially these days.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute
and pathetic...
and pathetic...
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.
anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.
1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.
the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.
he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.
that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'
man just do it.
anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.
1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.
the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.
he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.
that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'
man just do it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Speculator E
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I agree. A guy with ambitions is better than a pua using game. Game are for betas trying to act like alphas.