Money and a real career > Game, every single time

[GettinLuckyAintLuck]

What it all boils down to in this country (North America). Is the very old Scarface quote "In this country, you gotta get the money first, then when you get the money, you get the power, then when you get the power, then you get the woman." You can lie to yourself. You can memorize lines/routines/bs, but at the end of the day "Successful men" are the ones ****ing these hot model looking chicks. Believe it or not Ripley, it's the truth. Nothing else really matters. Unless you're in high school, personality will only get you so far......

 

[spinaroonie]

No.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/06/18/study-confirming-my-view-of-the-job-sexual-marketplace-nexus/

 

[GettinLuckyAintLuck]

I've had plenty of first dates where everything went perfect....the only problem was we were both taking the subway together.....

 

[Falcon25]

You just figured this out?

 

[Falcon25]

I laugh at these people who think game will get you all the chicks.

1) Good Looks
2) Money
3) Personality

It's not that a guy with confidence and average looks can't get a girl, it's that it is MUCH harder for him than a man with stellar looks and or lots of cash. So, stay in school, get a great job, get a half ass decent personality and fuvk models. Because if you have cash, no one gives a fuvk what you look like.

This is more true once you get out of college age chicks. When in college get something fun going or get some blow.

 

[Scion]

When in college get something fun going or get some blow.

that's how you get girls outside of college too. Remember kids, sluts love blow!

 

[Rescue Mission]

if a girl thinks that you can give her an amazing orgasm, just by the way you act and present yourself to her, then she will want you to FVCK her, and use some other guy who's a millionaire to "settle down with"

You want to be the guy that FVCKS these women, not the guy that they "date and use for money and power"

 

[old married dude]

I laugh at these people who think game will get you all the chicks.

1) Good Looks
2) Money
3) Personality

It's not that a guy with confidence and average looks can't get a girl, it's that it is MUCH harder for him than a man with stellar looks and or lots of cash. So, stay in school, get a great job, get a half ass descent personality and fuvk models. Because if you have cash, no one gives a fuvk what you look like.

This is more true once you get out of college age chicks. When in college get something fun going or get some blow.

You forgot to mention height. If you're a guy who's under 5'8" you're screwed no matter how much money or how good looking you are. I see a lot of girls with really ugly, totally broke, or douchebag guys only b/c of the fact they are 6'4", etc. This is almost strictly an American phenomenon. I've traveled enough to see that this isn't much of an issue at all in other countries, especially Latin America.

 

[Amazing]

if you show her you are a guy who sleeps with a lot of "quality" women and is not a wuss, she will not care about money. (at least from you..unless she wants to marry you) how do i know? millionares trophy wife wanted me

 

[Falcon25]

if a girl thinks that you can give her an amazing orgasm, just by the way you act and present yourself to her, then she will want you to FVCK her, and use some other guy who's a millionaire to "settle down with"

You want to be the guy that FVCKS these women, not the guy that they "date and use for money and power"

But she will never truly be yours. Random things like this happen all the time. I fuvked a married girl six months ago, for two months, but in the end she went back to him. You have to understand that if you don't have very good looks or great body or money, it's just going to be harder for you to peg one very beautiful woman down with you. Sometimes you will get lucky. Sometimes you will hit jackpot. BUT, the guys with cash, looks, a little bit of personality do not need luck, do not have to try, they just show up. So if you want your life with women easier, you have to be SUCCESSFUL. Let this be a lesson. Go out and become everything you can be. Women will notice. Success is womenese for "he makes a good living".

 

[Diaforetikos]

But she will never truly be yours. Random things like this happen all the time. I fuvked a married girl six months ago, for two months, but in the end she went back to him.

You wanted that b-word to be "your girl?"

I know I wouldn't. And I wouldn't settle down until I had my life together anyways. That should be common sense.

Thats why I don't date for LTR. LTR dating is trying to see if you two will be able to be together for a long time... aka, MARRIED. I just wanna have fun with women. Thats all. I'll have a LTR soon enough. Thats too much extra work at my young age. Not worth it. Did it once, and don't plan on doing it again... not at least for a while.

 

[runner83]

I'm not saying the OP is wrong in his analysis.

But I know for me (and possibly a lot of other guys reading this), we don't want to be with a woman who wants us just for our money.

Being successful is still well and good, but that should be for yourself.

For me personally, I'd rather stay single and keep things "casual" rather than get with a woman who is going to take all my money (Newsflash - Women spend a lot of money!)

 

[Falcon25]

I'm not saying the OP is wrong in his analysis.

But I know for me (and possibly a lot of other guys reading this), we don't want to be with a woman who wants us just for our money.

Being successful is still well and good, but that should be for yourself.

For me personally, I'd rather stay single and keep things "casual" rather than get with a woman who is going to take all my money (Newsflash - Women spend a lot of money!)

All women want money, stability, comfort. Troubled finances are the NUMBER ONE reason for divorce in the WORLD. She doesn't want you just for your money. She is doing what she is biologically programmed to do, seek success. Especially if she is hot.

 

[zekko]

It's not so much about money as it is about VALUE. Falcon25 mentions good looks, money, and personality. Old married dude mentions height. That is not a complete list by any means, but the point is that if a guy has true value he is going to be attractive to women. That is going to trump a guy who only has "game" going for him.

Now "game" can be defined a lot of different ways. Some might define it as the whole way you live your life and try to improve yourself. That's a little different than a guy doing Mystery Method routines which is essentially trying to trick a girl into THINKING you have value. You can't just insult or neg a girl a few times and think that's going to replace actual substance.

 

[EFFORT]

This explains it pretty well

http://uvtblog.com/2009/02/the-womans-real-scale-of-1-10/

 

[GetOveIT]

Asking what woman want instead of what YOU want is a sure thing to afc kingdom....

 

[synergy1]

Its a simple formula, so simple I almost scorn myself for overgeneralizing.

Being good at life: You got your **** together. You work out, you have a decent career ( be it as an employee or even your own boss), and you make friends. These people are good at life. Being rich doesn't hurt. Women like guys who are good at life.

Being bad at life: usually the kind of guy who isn't too terribly intelligent, has made bad choices, and continues to just...suck. Sorry, a lot of people fall into this camp either by genetics or by their own choices. Some chose to cover this up by pretending game puts them in the first camp, but it doesn't. By putting women as an end goal, they automatically assume that their ephemeral success puts them in camp 1. whats worse is the sour grapes outlook, ' well i don't want a gold digger anyway, so its good not to be rich'.

No, but if your good at life, it doesn't matter if your rich. everything else is already working for you.

That's a little different than a guy doing Mystery Method routines which is essentially trying to trick a girl into THINKING you have value. You can't just insult or neg a girl a few times and think that's going to replace actual substance.

I guess its not surprising that once again I agree with something you post. Its becoming pretty common place these days.

 

[Uberguy]

All women want money, stability, comfort. Troubled finances are the NUMBER ONE reason for divorce in the WORLD. She doesn't want you just for your money. She is doing what she is biologically programmed to do, seek success. Especially if she is hot.

All very true. But even all those things may not be enough for some women. I was schtupping a model who was dating a very rich investment banker. I'm fairly successful, but in terms of net worth, this other guy made me look dirt poor. That didn't keep her devoted to him.

This guy had plenty of money, and he gave the girl stability, comfort, devotion, romance, etc. What did he lack? He was boring and bad in the sack. So if you want to have an LTR or even marry a hot chick, money alone can get you the girl. But if you want her to actually love you/stay faithful to you, it's going to take far, far more.

"A rich man is just a poor man with money." ~W. C. Fields

 

[Plinco]

Everybody is going to be broke in a few years anyway lol.

 

[mikeyb]

@OP: Only true if you're looking for money-hungry slvts who will rob you blind. Sure, money can't hurt, but it shouldn't be the first thing on any (worthy) woman's mind.