kingsam
Master Don Juan
GAME > looks
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Great post, looks trumps personality and money every time. Keep gettin yourself to look good. Guys age very well.gbmack said:Money alone does not get you laid.
It's having money AND one of the following:
1. good looks
2. good personality
And if you don't have either of them, hit the gym.
When you work out, your "looks" will improve AND your "personality" will improve because of the confidence you gain from pushing yourself to the limit from running, lifting weights, etc.
If you don't have money, you better have good looks and a good personality...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
eh, I didn't mean careers are not important at all. I meant careers as a means of picking up chicks.zekko said:Why wouldn't improving yourself as a man include improving your career? Which would generally translate into more money, unless you're going for a fulfillment type of job where you just love what you do or are wanting to help people, etc.
and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!2crudedudes said:The career shouldn't replace your game. If all you do is flaunt your cash to pick up chicks, that's not game. That's being a rich AFC.
Most women (especially the hottest ones) are superficial and sometimes superfiscal.kingsam said:and all you will get is the worng types of women - golddiggers!
a suprising amount of rich people dont flaunt their wealth, if you met them they would seem normal
ppl (esp here) think being rich = chicks ... not really
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
That had me cracking up!!! And I agree!teacha said:game > looks......until the lights are switched back on.
kingsam said:you poor little guys with your limiting belefis....awww...kinda cute
and pathetic...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Once again, this is another story of RANDOM success. CONSTANT success is completely different.backbreaker said:There is this movie that i watched about a month ago, it's called interviews with hideous men, it has my baby in it, Juliane Nicholson, who is this grad student and she is trying for the whole movie to figure out what men and want and what women want all while battling her own personal problems.
anyway, in the movie, there are these two guys, who sum up sosuave to a T and as soon as i saw them i started crying laughing.
1. neither are really that bad looking at all
2. the entire time, they are sitting there, as Julianne (who is cute) is passing them, sitting there having these debates about women. no matter where they are, school, lunch, dinner, doesn't matter.
the guy who she ends up sleeping with, on the first date mind you, becuase she "was in love" (she really thought she was) was just some guy who she saw and a ****tail party, who saw her and started talking to her and asked her to come home with her.
he hits it, then meets someone else then tells her not to come around anymore, as he's banging other women.
that in a nutshell, is sosuave's relationship with women.'
man just do it.