"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Message to Guys who are Unsuccessful with Women

Evzone

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OP, I actually agree with you, but I'm not sure if some on the site are ready to understand this.

The point is, you need to come up with a realistic, no-BS assessment of who and what you are in order to improve.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rex Man

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People seem to forget that there's more than one way to skin a cat. We all have that defining moment that makes us want to change. It could be the thing that brought us to this site. Or the time we looked in the mirror and got angry at what we saw. Or the time we got stood up and felt useless. Or the time the @sshole got picked over us. Different strokes for different folks. You know yourself better than anyone else so find what motivates you and GO!

Oh yeah....Cubs '08 B!tches
 
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all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words

a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE

you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
 

ezily

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positivity_injection said:
all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words

a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE

you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
good point. this is what you should have said all along.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Inside Man

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I think he was talking more along the lines of actually giving people advice, and not claiming you're some kind of king. did that get lost in translation?
 
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