"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Message to Guys who are Unsuccessful with Women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Oh yeah....Cubs '08 B!tches
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a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE
you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
ezily
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good point. this is what you should have said all along.positivity_injection said:all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words
a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE
you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
positivity_injection
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ezily said:good point. this is what you should have said all along.
English is my second language lol, the words didnt come into my head that way before
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.