Message to Guys who are Unsuccessful with Women

[Rex Man]

I do speak down to you, its what u deserve for being the failures that you are

:crackup:

Come on, you gotta love this guy. While I'm definitely a "tough love" advocate, I'm not sure if belittling(sp?) people is the answer. But damn if isn't funny to watch!

 

[OrangeCrusader]

Dude, F-you. Don't speak down to me, jerk.

My, someone is all butthurt over what a stranger over the internet thinks. Must suck to be you, if you react like that on here, much less in real life.

I disagree with how the OP got the point across, but I do agree with some of his points.

 

[positivity_injection]

If you had followed your own advice at 17, you would have accepted the fact that you cannot get any women and what little success you have gotten over the years from spamming myspace accounts would not have happened.

So you just contradicted yourself, again. Your posts are entertaining to read though, you sound like someone who's never been violently assaulted. Your sh1t does in fact stink, and someone will rub your nose in it soon enough unless you learn some
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i followed my own advice at 17

i got so p1ssed at being the loser that i was, that i cold approached my 1st girl ever, got her #, and made her my gf for the summer between junior and senior year.......i operated off of anger at myself, and for some reason, the approach anxiety went away for those few minutes

you fool, do u actually think that i have not practiced what i preach??

EVERY SINGLE PIECE OF ADVICE THAT I GIVE IS BASED ON MY OWN PERSONAL DATING EXPERIENCE


p.s. Inside Man, your whole argument is pretty nerdy, Humility? wtf is that? im supposed to act a certain way to please some chump like you or something?

and yea spamming myspace...........you tell me whats wrong with fcuking 40-50 chicks in 2 years from myspace, and making about 10 of them LTR/plate material......tell me whats wrong with that and please, tell me about your success too cuz i wanna hear if you are speaking from experience or from nerdiness


EDIT: INSIDE MAN, I AM NOT WASTING POSTS TO TALK TO YOU

u ignored every single point i just made and you are a total idiot for it

 

[positivity_injection]

:crackup:

Come on, you gotta love this guy. While I'm definitely a "tough love" advocate, I'm not sure if belittling(sp?) people is the answer. But damn if isn't funny to watch!

some of these guys need to be belittled, so they realize that they NEED to make changes to themselves so that they can grow.......cuz right now, some of these guys are awful awful creeps, and the only way to WAKE THEM UP is by telling them the truth

please do forgive me for being honest

 

[The Inside Man]

I know you practice what you preach. And skip, what you preach is spamming 100s of messages to myspace accounts. That is where the vast majority of your successes come from if I remember correctly.

Thats why your personal experience is irrelevant, and the only thing keeping you in your position as "King" of the dating scene is your overinflated ego.

People are capable of change.. Telling someone to accept as a fact that they are stuck as a loser, nerd, etc. goes against that basic fundamental human truth.

EVERY SINGLE PIECE OF ADVICE YOU GIVE IS A CALL FOR ATTENTION AND BASED OFF OF A NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY



You are not perfect, nor a finished product. You're young, dumb, and arrogant, and that does not make you unique in this country.

 

[ready123]

some of these guys need to be belittled, so they realize that they NEED to make changes to themselves so that they can grow.......cuz right now, some of these guys are awful awful creeps, and the only way to WAKE THEM UP is by telling them the truth

please do forgive me for being honest

you would make a shtty manager

 

[The Inside Man]

Also the very first line in your post advocates internalizing ideas that other people project onto you. In other words, taking your self meaning and worth from other people. An external locus of control is the last thing you need when trying to improve with women.

I could pick you apart all day but it gets boring after 5 minutes. You have never really wanted to help, only to criticize and put down others to elevate yourself. You will never be more than a joke on this site.

EDIT:Skip I know you don't like to argue with me, I use facts and solid advice instead of insults. And you can clearly see I've been addressing the points you made, and systematically exposing them as untruths. If you don't want anyone to call your BS then don't BS us in the first place.

 

[The Inside Man]

Okay now that I've pulled skiptomylou out of hiding and he's acknowledged that positivity injection is the myspace spamming faux-player we all love to hate, would the mods kindly dump this guy in the trash where he belongs? Kthxbye

 

[TakenDirectly]

While I can understand and pretty much agree with what positivity is saying I don't see eye to eye with the way he is doing it. I guess you are trying to poke the dog in the cage with a stick to make it angry and hungry. While it works on some, it's not the best method.

Obviously, everyone here supports SELF IMPROVEMENT. The message here isn't "if you are fat, then that's fine". I constantly see the idea of dressing better, working out more, taking care of yourself better, being more social, knowledgeable, etc. being pushed into a lot of posts here. Where you get the idea that everyone here is telling everyone else to accept who they are is beyond me. If anything I only hear "accept the things you CAN'T change and work on the things you want to improve".

 

[Maxtro]

Okay now that I've pulled skiptomylou out of hiding and he's acknowledged that positivity injection is the myspace spamming faux-player we all love to hate, would the mods kindly dump this guy in the trash where he belongs? Kthxbye

The mods already know who he is. I'm sure they've known for a while now. They are just waiting for a reason.

 

[positivity_injection]

Okay now that I've pulled skiptomylou out of hiding and he's acknowledged that positivity injection is the myspace spamming faux-player we all love to hate, would the mods kindly dump this guy in the trash where he belongs? Kthxbye

im not a faux player you hater, im the real thing, u are the perfect example of an internet nerd trying to argue with a player - hop off *****

EDIT: Ezily, i reached my 10 post limit LMAO, but i have posted proof on here before, proof as in pics of me and girls, ive proven who i am many times, trust me, i am who i say i am, i got no reason to lie aboue anything

in fact, i seem to be hated on because im too honest, and it ends up that nerdy guys hate me, and guys who wanna improve and other playas respect me, coincidence??

 

[ezily]

im not a faux player you hater, im the real thing, u are the perfect example of an internet nerd trying to argue with a player - hop off *****

anyone can say they are the real thing and have tons of experience. No one here has any reason to believe you. And how do we know you didn't get your **** out of some book?

I think the main point you're trying to make is valid, but the manner in which you do it is not well thought out.

 

[ChrizZ]

Why don't you guys actually go out in the real world instead of wasting time arguing with strangers on the internet.

While everyone on here is typing their little flame posts there are actually people out there approaching women, getting laid, working on themselves etc.

I doubt they'd cry themselves to sleep because some guy told them they had to change themselves.

If you can't take this, how can you take the abuse in the real world?!?!?!

 

[DJVladdy]

Ohh snap

Skip (and chris, crazy asian, also myself to an extent...) how DARE you tell the guys here how it is. How dare you call a square a square and circle a circle??

Dont you know what you should say here on sosuave? Ohh its okay you'll improve, just keep trying! So many girls are just immature! You are all unique, special snowflakes!!




What The Hell?
So many pvssies here, can't talk like men, need everything softened up. I agree with the OP absolutely, if you are a loser admit you're a loser.

You know how I lost 20 over the summer 2 years ago?
I looked in the mirror one day, and said to myself, you are a fat embarrasing piece of crap, how dare you let yourself look like this?

I got mad at myself and that's what pushed me. Sometimes its necessary.

 

[Corona]

Hrmm... could all Skip's anger and countless posts belittling "nerds" be related to the insecurities he has about actually being a nerd himself?

:yes:

 

[Guybrush]

I wouldn't put it as harsh as Positivity_Injection did, but he's right, no matter how much it hurts -

ACCEPTING the deficiencies IS the beginning to improve.

Everybody has an opinion in this world, this forum being the perfect example,
and sometimes, some people need to shut up.

Questioning the experience ALL THE TIME, will get the beginner nowhere.

So stop whining and continue to improve -

don't post masturbatory logical debate posts, especially if you are under 25 - and still a beginner.

 

[The Inside Man]

--im not a faux player you hater, im the real thing, u are the perfect example of an internet nerd trying to argue with a player - hop off *****

EDIT: Ezily, i reached my 10 post limit LMAO, but i have posted proof on here before, proof as in pics of me and girls, ive proven who i am many times, trust me, i am who i say i am, i got no reason to lie aboue anything

in fact, i seem to be hated on because im too honest, and it ends up that nerdy guys hate me, and guys who wanna improve and other playas respect me, coincidence??--
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Skippy, since you are convinced everyone who disagrees with you is a nerdy virgin, heres a little about me:

Keep in mind I don't mention any of this stuff in the other posts because I am not trying to show off, or say that my experience makes me a master playa... I try to learn more everyday. Thats along the lines of that humility thing I was talking about earlier.


But since you asked heres a little about me: I am going for my master's degree, I have lifted weights for 7 years never missing more than a month off, I have trained in various martial arts since I was in first grade up to now including western boxing, wrestling, and burmese kickboxing; I dated the prom queen at my high school, I hooked up with 15-20 girls in college(I don;t track my numbers, quality over quantity). I got head from a girl who is a football cheerleader for a Division 1 college in this area of the country(seen her on TV during games too). I hooked up with a girl on her spring break a week after I had shoulder surgery. I went to mexico over xmas break for 6 days and hooked up with 3 girls, 2 being cute and one being drop dead gorgeous. The last one was calling me her boyfriend and telling me she loved me at the end of the night. My first girlfriend was a HB9 asian and I took her virginity. Another time in mexico I met a girl from essex britain on vacation, blonde hair blue eyed HB9, I banged her for an hour on a beach chair right by the ocean. The best things a girl has said to me during sex are "Wow" and "You're crazy!". On a warm summer afternoon at my undergrad college in the midwest, me and two friends walked into a bar where there were only two people, both hot girls, sitting at the bar. I sat next to them and ended up taking one back to her house at 830pm and boned her until she couldn't stay awake, then she became my fb for a couple months. I got head from a girl on her dad's 10million dollar yacht on vacation in the caribbean.


I could go on but you get the picture. I have some experience to speak from which doesn't include myspace spamming for 98% of my hookups. If you really want proof pm your email and I'll send you the some pics, just dont masturbate too much to them.

I also wouldn't call myself a playa, because I don't have that egotistical numbers centered mindset.

I am a man trying to improve myself and enjoy life, live in the moment, and hook up with the hottest girls I can while I'm at it.




PS-not one of those girls was randomly messaged on myspace.

 

[Kaim Argonar]

positivity whoever is the epitome of everything that's insufferable about select Sosuave posters, just **** you

 

[lookyoung]

Insideman I think its great that your actually active in the game and getting laid, but the way I see it if this guy is fvcking girls off of myspace who gives a fvck. More power to him. Its all about the results. I have fvcked girls through the internet, school, friends,parties, work,clubs.... You get the picture it doesn't matter how you get them as long as you get them.

 

[Killer Six Pac]

yes sir