You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
good point. this is what you should have said all along.positivity_injection said:all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words
a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE
you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
ezily said:good point. this is what you should have said all along.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.