"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Message to Guys who are Unsuccessful with Women

Evzone

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OP, I actually agree with you, but I'm not sure if some on the site are ready to understand this.

The point is, you need to come up with a realistic, no-BS assessment of who and what you are in order to improve.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rex Man

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People seem to forget that there's more than one way to skin a cat. We all have that defining moment that makes us want to change. It could be the thing that brought us to this site. Or the time we looked in the mirror and got angry at what we saw. Or the time we got stood up and felt useless. Or the time the @sshole got picked over us. Different strokes for different folks. You know yourself better than anyone else so find what motivates you and GO!

Oh yeah....Cubs '08 B!tches
 
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all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words

a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE

you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
 

ezily

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positivity_injection said:
all foolish haters aside, i am glad that there are a handful of guys here (Evzone, Chriz, DjVladdy ect ect) who feel the truth in my harsh words

a no BS self assesment is absolutely necessary.......you gotta be able to talk to YOURSELF the same way i am talking to the losers here right now.....and when you realize you are a big failure, you will feel the fire in your gut to want to CHANGE

you will instantly want to lose those extra 30lbs (like i did when i was 19)
you will instantly want to find some goddamn girls to hook up with (like i did when i was 17/18)
once you realistically start to hate the FACT that you are a LOSER, you WILL CHANGE
good point. this is what you should have said all along.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Inside Man

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I think he was talking more along the lines of actually giving people advice, and not claiming you're some kind of king. did that get lost in translation?
 
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