Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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- 33
Let's be real here, some women 30+ are smoking hot. Do the same rules apply when trying to get with those girls?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
52 year old 6.5 is an oxymoronI was with a 6.5 52 year old for much of last year. Amazing sex since she knew I was out of her league
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
30-35 year old attention hoes are the worse specimen of female breed in existence. Hit and run material.Be prepared for them to play way more games and be more flakey and worse communicators. That’s been my experience with women in their 30’s.
Agree partly. The childless ones are worst in my opinion. But ladies who already gave birth at that age tend to be much more relaxed. So, I believe it has got to do with hormonal balance which gets in disorder once they hit 30 and had no babies. But at 40 they are indeed bat shoot crazy.Agreed, around 30 they go nuts. Desperate and aggressive to get the man they "deserve", which submits to their will and commits his life and resources to her wellbeing.
I left single moms out of the equation. I can partly agree as well, they tend to be more relaxed at 30, unless they want to lock you down with another kid..... and thats the danger when dating single moms, you never know ....Agree partly. The childless ones are worst in my opinion. But ladies who already gave birth at that age tend to be much more relaxed. So, I believe it has got to do with hormonal balance which gets in disorder once they hit 30 and had no babies. But at 40 they are indeed bat shoot crazy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
True. However if I was to choose, I'd still prefer the single mom over the one who completely lost it...unless they want to lock you down with another kid.....
These broads are the same the world over. Everything you two guys just said applies here in the USATrue. However if I was to choose, I'd still prefer the single mom over the one who completely lost it![]()
Maybe the amount of feminism thrown in that adds to the story varies a little between different culturesThese broads are the same the world over.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.