Epicwinguy
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 20, 2016
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- Age
- 33
Let's be real here, some women 30+ are smoking hot. Do the same rules apply when trying to get with those girls?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
52 year old 6.5 is an oxymoronI was with a 6.5 52 year old for much of last year. Amazing sex since she knew I was out of her league
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
30-35 year old attention hoes are the worse specimen of female breed in existence. Hit and run material.Be prepared for them to play way more games and be more flakey and worse communicators. That’s been my experience with women in their 30’s.
Agree partly. The childless ones are worst in my opinion. But ladies who already gave birth at that age tend to be much more relaxed. So, I believe it has got to do with hormonal balance which gets in disorder once they hit 30 and had no babies. But at 40 they are indeed bat shoot crazy.Agreed, around 30 they go nuts. Desperate and aggressive to get the man they "deserve", which submits to their will and commits his life and resources to her wellbeing.
I left single moms out of the equation. I can partly agree as well, they tend to be more relaxed at 30, unless they want to lock you down with another kid..... and thats the danger when dating single moms, you never know ....Agree partly. The childless ones are worst in my opinion. But ladies who already gave birth at that age tend to be much more relaxed. So, I believe it has got to do with hormonal balance which gets in disorder once they hit 30 and had no babies. But at 40 they are indeed bat shoot crazy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
True. However if I was to choose, I'd still prefer the single mom over the one who completely lost it...unless they want to lock you down with another kid.....
These broads are the same the world over. Everything you two guys just said applies here in the USATrue. However if I was to choose, I'd still prefer the single mom over the one who completely lost it![]()
Maybe the amount of feminism thrown in that adds to the story varies a little between different culturesThese broads are the same the world over.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.