Ringleader41
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White guys have it way easier in the game
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
man, if I was white I would probably have it way easier
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Iceberg
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Boo hoo.
Maybe if you stopped being a b*tch that would help too. Chicks tend to like guys who aren't b*tches.
Maybe if you stopped being a b*tch that would help too. Chicks tend to like guys who aren't b*tches.
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perseverance
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I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
donnyjondeppjuando
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If your black boast about your 10 incher and act all gangsta rap kool
If your asian boast about your education and computing skills
If your mexican boast about your cooking skills
If your indian boast about your cooking skills also lol
mmmmmmmmm....there ya go sorted!!!
If your asian boast about your education and computing skills
If your mexican boast about your cooking skills
If your indian boast about your cooking skills also lol
mmmmmmmmm....there ya go sorted!!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Judge nismo sees a case of a male with emotional drawers!
What makes you think White folk have it easier? Race don't f**kin' matter. I'm black and even though I've got an uphill battle, I've seen Whites and other races struggle with women. Improve yourself and quit whining.
Case dismissed. Leave my courtroom.
What makes you think White folk have it easier? Race don't f**kin' matter. I'm black and even though I've got an uphill battle, I've seen Whites and other races struggle with women. Improve yourself and quit whining.
Case dismissed. Leave my courtroom.
Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.
It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
Iceberg
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There were whiners in the old days too. But yeah, the site had more a "community" feel to it. Or maybe I'm just getting older and losing my patience with the crybabies.PDubb75 said:
Good point. What was the other thread he started today? "I just realized that I'm ugly"ArcBound said:
Very new member + starts attention-seeking threads = troll
Do you think there's an correlation between high schools just starting summer break and the wave of bored teenagers starting troll threads? I do.
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perseverance
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What I've never understood is why people who don't like or love themselves expect to be liked and loved by others.
It just doesn't work that way, you have to love yourself before someone else will. People who are constantly putting themselves down, constantly whinging are seen as depressing people to be around and people will generally gravitate away from people with such a poor attitude and weak mentality.
I expect this type of talk from a woman, not a man. Us men can't get our pecs inlarged through surgery, we can't walk around with hair extensions or foundation like women. We have to make use with what we were born with and while we can't change everything there are things we can change.
What the OP needs is simple. He needs more hobbies, he needs to improve his self image which will improve his self esteem and he needs to realise that we all have our faults, but we shouldn't spend our entire lives focusing on them. We should focus on selling our good points to people.
It just doesn't work that way, you have to love yourself before someone else will. People who are constantly putting themselves down, constantly whinging are seen as depressing people to be around and people will generally gravitate away from people with such a poor attitude and weak mentality.
I expect this type of talk from a woman, not a man. Us men can't get our pecs inlarged through surgery, we can't walk around with hair extensions or foundation like women. We have to make use with what we were born with and while we can't change everything there are things we can change.
What the OP needs is simple. He needs more hobbies, he needs to improve his self image which will improve his self esteem and he needs to realise that we all have our faults, but we shouldn't spend our entire lives focusing on them. We should focus on selling our good points to people.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Easier how? You have it easy with your own women, plus there are white girls that will only fvck black dudes. Just ran into one 2 days ago that wouldn't give me the time of day when she saw me in person. She was a solid 9 too.
There's also some evidence that suggests black men are the most sexually attractive of all races (see the recent psychology today study done on why black women are less attractive), possibly because of elevated testosterone levels
There's also some evidence that suggests black men are the most sexually attractive of all races (see the recent psychology today study done on why black women are less attractive), possibly because of elevated testosterone levels
Ringleader41
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Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
SamTheHobit
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If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
KarmaSutra
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You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.SamTheHobit said:
You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.
Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.
Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
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perseverance
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Says the 37 year old who acts like a Virgin. :yes:KarmaSutra said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maxtro
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5string
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Should have been gamin' those chicks instead of washing dishes in the kitchen!Maxtro said:
KarmaSutra
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SamTheHobit said:
"Ebony (wanna-be) and Ivory, lived together in perfect harmony..."perseverance said:
I didn't think Paul McCartney could apply to anything.
I was wrong.
You lovebirds enjoy.
Iceberg
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Hey here's an idea. How about you read some articles and tips, FIRST. And THEN post threads whining and complaining?Ringleader41 said:
Because they question that you're asking shows that you've put zero effort into actually reading the information on this site.
Come back in a month. Bye.
Ringleader41
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Yeah but I have to game different than the average joe white guy.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.