Ringleader41
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White guys have it way easier in the game
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There were whiners in the old days too. But yeah, the site had more a "community" feel to it. Or maybe I'm just getting older and losing my patience with the crybabies.PDubb75 said:Iceberg, you had a post a little while back talking about how this site used to be a "brotherhood" with loads of good info, and much less complaining.
It's crap like this that makes me jealous I wasn't here at that point.
Good point. What was the other thread he started today? "I just realized that I'm ugly"ArcBound said:Incoming Troll detected.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
Says the 37 year old who acts like a Virgin. :yes:KarmaSutra said:You'd still be jerking your load into your favorite white sock, while crying that Justin Beiber can't be yours.
You'd still be a grammatical infant no matter what color you think you are.
Now, pull your pants up, turn your lid straight, walk with both of your arches flat on the ground then fvck yourself.
Kids. Gotta laugh at 'em.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Should have been gamin' those chicks instead of washing dishes in the kitchen!Maxtro said:
SamTheHobit said:If i was black i would get a job eisier in south africa.
"Ebony (wanna-be) and Ivory, lived together in perfect harmony..."perseverance said:I'm a white guy and I've never had it easy in the dating game, so stop using race as an excuse for your failings with women.
Hey here's an idea. How about you read some articles and tips, FIRST. And THEN post threads whining and complaining?Ringleader41 said:Well how do yall game white girls than cause I'm lost. I'm stuck in the rich white suburbs.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.